It’s Transforming Him Too

It's Changing Him Too

It’s Transforming Him Too

Working on you is so important.

You are a treasure and it is worth the investment of your time, and even your resources, to figure out who you are, what your true desires are, and how to ignite your feminine spirit.

The truth is, the growth and transformation you see in yourself will transform your man, too.

I want you to watch this short video. This is a clip from our “Man Panel” at our last Cherished for Life Weekend. I love the stories of transformation we hear from women around the world daily, but I cherish the stories from the men, too.

Watch this:

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My Husband is a Narcissist

My Husband is a Narcissist

My Husband is a Narcissist

The Unconventional Guide to Being Happily Married to The Self-Absorbed

Being married to someone who’s preoccupied with his own attributes is lonely and tiring.

When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, hypersensitivity is the norm.

It’s frustrating when you make a comment and he gets defensive at the perceived attack when you didn’t intend one.

Narcissists are known for having challenges in sustaining satisfying relationships.

Of course they are—they lack empathy and are busy building up themselves to be more important than they are.

Can being married to a narcissist ever be gratifying?

Can someone so self-absorbed ever bring the tenderness, thoughtfulness and admiration that every wife craves and deserves?

Your narcissist can and will bring the tenderness when you do this for a month: Click To Tweet

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What Men Want in a Relationship

What Men Want In a Relationship

What Men Want in a Relationship

The 5 Relationship Hacks All Women Should Know But Don’t

What do men want most from the women they love?

If you’re asking yourself that, it’s probably because your guy seems grumpy, distant or depressed. Maybe he’s all three.

Early on in my marriage, when everything was a struggle, I thought I was a pretty good wife.

And since my marriage was miserable, that meant that he was the problem.

But now I realize I was looking at everything through my female eyes, which meant I didn’t understand his perspective. At all.

Figuring out what my husband wanted and what made him feel loved blew open the whole mystery for me.

It was like traveling to another country and wondering why everyone was so hostile, and then learning that waving “hello” is their gesture for “drop dead.”

Now that I know what makes men feel loved, my marriage is sweet and fun.

It was easier than I thought. I was making it too hard, until I discovered these simple habits.

Here are 5 relationship hacks that I wish every woman knew, but most don’t. Click To Tweet

These are the things your man really wants, and will inspire him to desire, cherish and adore you 10X over.

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My Husband Does Not Make Enough Money

My Husband Does Not Make Enough Money

My Husband Does Not Make Enough Money

5 Steps to Inspire Him to Become More Prosperous

Just think--by the time you’re done reading this, you’ll know how to inspire your husband to be more prosperous. Click To Tweet

What I’m going to share with you is powerful, whether he’s out of work, retired, or just under-earning.

But it is not at all obvious. In fact, it’s completely counter-intuitive. At least, it was for me, and has been for many of the women I’ve worked with.

It took me many years to figure this out, and even when I did, it was hard to believe.

But now that I’ve seen it work–not just in my own marriage, but in thousands of marriages all over the world–I can’t deny that it’s ridiculously effective.

The results I see are husbands starting businesses, or growing their businesses, and getting promotions—three in one year, sometimes––or winning sales contests and getting raises.

And it was all because their wives took this scary, but enormously gratifying, approach.

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How to Communicate with Men

How to Communicate With Men

How to Communicate with Men

5 Life Hacks for Communicating with Men So They Hear You and Get You

Everybody knows communication is the key to a good relationship. That’s obvious.

But what if it isn’t?

I’m a good talker. I started talking early, and I never really shut up.

Growing up, my sport was Scrabble. I even majored in communication in college.

So when there were big problems in my marriage just a few years in, I knew it wasn’t me who wasn’t communicating properly.

The problem was clearly him. I noticed he didn’t even like to communicate. He didn’t listen, and he didn’t want to talk.

When I asked him how he felt, he said, “Hungry.”

Exasperating!

That’s when I realized I was in for a long “’til-death-do-us-part.” Divorce started to sound pretty tempting.

Miraculously, I then learned a few things about communication that they never taught me in school. And the funny thing is that after I learned them, my husband became a much better communicator.

Here are the 5 life hacks for communicating with men so they hear and get you: Click To Tweet

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