{"id":13227,"date":"2021-09-02T07:00:41","date_gmt":"2021-09-02T14:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/?p=13227"},"modified":"2023-12-20T22:34:00","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T06:34:00","slug":"help-end-world-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/help-end-world-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"How You Can Help End World Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ending world divorce may sound like one very tall order.<\/p>\n

It might seem like something so big and overwhelming that you can\u2019t imagine how it could happen, never mind how YOU could contribute to such a lofty goal. After all, relationships are falling apart everywhere you look, and it seems so normal, so business-as-usual to hear about people you know or celebrities tragically calling it quits.<\/p>\n

But what if it were the other way around? What if divorce were exceptional and staying married your whole life were actually the norm?<\/p>\n

What if that\u2019s what all the cool kids around you were doing?<\/p>\n

What if everyone were staying married and talking about how to make their marriage playful and passionate instead of whether to separate or call a divorce attorney?<\/p>\n

What if every time you complained about your marriage to your friends or your siblings they listened and empathized then asked what it was about you that was stopping you from having what you wanted?<\/p>\n

What if they acknowledged you for looking for how you could clean up your side of the street and celebrated when you were making yourself happy so you could have a happy marriage? What if the women in your circle shared their experience about how to successfully create a playful, passionate relationship?<\/p>\n

That sounds like a wonderful world, right?<\/p>\n

There is a small corner of the world like that: the Laura Doyle Connect Campus. That\u2019s the kind of community our coaches, coach trainees and students enjoy. And that\u2019s why you read this blog, I bet. Because you too think that marriage is important and you want to end world divorce, starting with making your own marriage last, which is the very best place to start.<\/p>\n

We are celebrating 20 years of empowering women to be Ridiculously Happy Wives this year. It took me a long time to figure out how to have this kind of community, which it turns out is essential for my marriage to thrive.<\/p>\n

Every time I hear myself sharing what I\u2019ve learned, it reminds and reinvigorates me to be my best self so I can have the best marriage. That\u2019s how I started doing this work to begin with: I wanted to have some structure and accountability to fix my own marriage, so I made my friends start doing it with me.<\/p>\n

Having a community is a great way to be able to pay forward to another woman what you\u2019ve learned about how to have a lasting marriage. Because what I learned is that the advanced self-help department is also known as the \u201chelp others\u201d department.<\/p>\n

So now you know my secret: that I\u2019m here paying forward what I\u2019ve learned to help myself. To keep my marriage shiny.<\/p>

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Now I have tens of thousands of friends doing this with me, which means we are so much closer to ending world divorce!<\/p>\n

But how can you get the advanced self-help of paying forward what you\u2019ve learned on this blog or from The Empowered Wife<\/em> book<\/a> or from listening to my podcast<\/a> and experimenting in your own marriage?<\/p>\n

And what might be possible for your marriage if you started sharing what you know with women who are hurting in their marriages? What kinds of breakthroughs could you have if you were paying forward what you\u2019ve learned?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how I got my breakthrough. And that\u2019s how so many women on our campus get their breakthroughs.<\/p>\n

So let\u2019s talk about three ways you can help end world divorce and at the same time get advanced self-help for your own marriage.<\/p>\n

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