{"id":14368,"date":"2013-08-02T11:47:18","date_gmt":"2013-08-02T18:47:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/?p=14368"},"modified":"2023-12-20T22:35:39","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T06:35:39","slug":"four-reasons-marriage-eludes-professional-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/four-reasons-marriage-eludes-professional-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Four Reasons Marriage Eludes Professional Women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHow can I find my husband?\u201d the pretty chiropractor asked in her coaching session. \u201cThat\u2019s the main thing that\u2019s missing in my life&#8211;someone great to share it with. I thought I would be married by now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s not the only one. Millions of single women&#8211;many bright and accomplished&#8211;wonder the same thing. They\u2019ve said yes to their careers and they\u2019d like to <em>Say Yes to the Dress<\/em>&#8211;if only they could find the man they want to marry. For women who have succeeded professionally, the challenge can be especially vexing&#8211;but typically <em>not <\/em>for the reasons they think.<\/p>\n<p>Successful relationships require a completely different skill set than careers, which makes sense because the goals in a relationship are completely different than the goals at work. In love, we crave tenderness, connection and passion. At work we strive to improve the bottom line, manage our projects or get promoted.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the most common mistakes professional women make in their quest to become part of a happy twosome, and the simple skills that will help them succeed in love as well as work:<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_39 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-transparent ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/four-reasons-marriage-eludes-professional-women\/#1_Wearing_a_Do_Not_Disturb_Sign\" title=\"Wearing a \u201cDo Not Disturb\u201d Sign\">Wearing a \u201cDo Not Disturb\u201d Sign<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/four-reasons-marriage-eludes-professional-women\/#2_Doing_the_Pursuing\" title=\"Doing the Pursuing\">Doing the Pursuing<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/four-reasons-marriage-eludes-professional-women\/#4_Not_Letting_Him_Treat\" title=\"Not Letting Him Treat\">Not Letting Him Treat<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Wearing_a_Do_Not_Disturb_Sign\"><\/span>1. Wearing a \u201cDo Not Disturb\u201d Sign<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Asking the question \u201cHow can I find my husband?\u201d implies that somewhere&#8211;under a rock, in a Where\u2019s Waldo puzzle or in Alaska&#8211;there are good quality men waiting to be found. The reality is that there are good men everywhere and if it doesn\u2019t seem that way to you, you may be unwittingly wearing a \u201cDo not disturb\u201d sign that keeps them from approaching. You could be in a room with 100 great, available guys, but if you\u2019re sending out a businesslike \u201cI\u2019m busy\u201d vibe it won\u2019t matter because that will keep you from connecting with any of them. The way you can tell if you have been doing this is if no men have approached you or asked you out recently.<\/p>\n<p>The cure for this is simple: start smiling at everyone you see. A smile is a signal that you\u2019re approachable, happy and friendly. Every romance starts with a smile, so you increase your chances of sparking one if you have yours at the ready.<\/p>\n<div class=\"laura-six-intimacy-skills\" id=\"laura-131445085\"><blockquote>\n<h3 style=\"display: inline; font-size: 23px;\">Related Article:<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/six-intimacy-skills\/\">The Number One Most Indispensable Skill for Fixing Your Marriage Fast.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Doing_the_Pursuing\"><\/span>2. Doing the Pursuing<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>My job as a dating coach is to show women how to change the question \u201cHow can I find my husband?\u201d to \u201cHow can I attract and marry the man who\u2019s right for me?\u201d I make this distinction because women are the sexier sex&#8211;the ones with the tail feathers\u2013\u2013and we have the power to <em>attract<\/em> men to us. We are natural magnets to men, who are a reliable, 24\/7 noticing service. Unlike job hunting, or getting into the best graduate program, you\u2019ll get further with receptivity&#8211;which is the essence of femininity and what men are most attracted to&#8211;than by being aggressive. If we indicate openness men will pursue us, which means we get to experience the delicious feeling of being desired. If we use what we\u2019ve learned at work about being assertive and initiate dates with men, it\u2019s as though we\u2019re forgetting that part of our mystery and magic is our allure. Doing the pursuing means putting your beautiful tail feathers down and taking a big, unnecessary risk that you\u2019ll be rejected.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to feel desired, consider asking men to ask you out to get the ball rolling. Instead of saying, \u201clet\u2019s get together on Thursday for coffee\u201d hand him your card and say, \u201chere\u2019s my number if you want to get together sometime.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>3. Using Sex Instead of Vulnerability<\/h3>\n<p>Being feminine magnetizes men, but it isn\u2019t enough to make them devote themselves for life. Your emotional vulnerability is the glue that binds a couple together and creates the fascination that leads to long-term commitment. That\u2019s not something you\u2019d bring to work where you want to appear put-together and professional, so it may feel unfamiliar. Also, vulnerability feels scary, so some women try to use sex to create that bond. But trading sex for love can never compare to feeling loved for being you. Getting naked physically is not as bonding as getting naked emotionally, which is how lasting attachments form.<\/p>\n<p>By admitting that you miss him, laughing unreservedly, or letting your tears well up you become an irresistible source of inspiration\u2014one that he doesn\u2019t want to be without.<\/p>\n<p>Consider reserving sex until after you\u2019re experiencing the closeness and safety of an intimate, emotional bond. You\u2019ll know that\u2019s happened when he asks to be exclusive with you.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Not_Letting_Him_Treat\"><\/span>4. Not Letting Him Treat<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re quick to pay your share of the dinner bill on a date, he will get the message: You\u2019re not interested in him. If you were, you\u2019d let him treat you. That was implicit in his offer to go out, and if you missed that part it may be because you\u2019re trying to show that you can pull your own weight, just like you do at work. But this isn\u2019t work&#8211;it\u2019s a potential romance, and it can\u2019t hurt to smile and thank him for the meal, the movie or the cup of joe. This may seem old-fashioned, but even a modern woman can enjoy getting special treatment when she\u2019s off the clock. Sure it feels a little vulnerable, but see #3 above&#8211;that\u2019s part of what forms the connection between you. It also feels good to be cherished. He wouldn\u2019t be offering if he didn\u2019t think you were worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Experiment with receiving graciously&#8211;his compliments, the door being opened, the flowers he brought you&#8211;and you may be surprised how much more interested you both are to see each other again.<\/p><div class=\"laura-new-roadmap\" id=\"laura-3412029699\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/adoredwifeweekend.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-17022 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1118\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png 1118w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-150x75.png 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-480x240.png 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-768x384.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1118px) 100vw, 1118px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Instead of asking yourself, \u201cHow can I find my husband?\u201d consider asking, \u201cHow Can I learn the skills that lead to a lasting intimate, passionate relationship?\u201d Start by reading The Surrendered Single: A Practical Guide to Marrying the Man Who&#8217;s Right for You. You can read a free chapter <a href=\"http:\/\/lauradoylemail.com\/store\/the-books\/surrendered-single-sample-chapter\/\">here<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve done well studying for your career. Isn\u2019t it time you gave your desire for love the same benefit?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHow can I find my husband?\u201d the pretty chiropractor asked in her coaching session. \u201cThat\u2019s the main thing that\u2019s missing in my life&#8211;someone great to share it with. I thought I would be married by now.\u201d She\u2019s not the only one. Millions of single women&#8211;many bright and accomplished&#8211;wonder the same thing. They\u2019ve said yes to\u2026 <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/four-reasons-marriage-eludes-professional-women\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15754,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_stopmodifiedupdate":false,"_modified_date":"","content-type":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[714],"tags":[],"app":[],"class_list":["post-14368","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-and-relationships"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Four Reasons Marriage Eludes Professional Women<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/four-reasons-marriage-eludes-professional-women\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Four Reasons Marriage Eludes Professional Women\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u201cHow can I find my husband?\u201d the pretty chiropractor asked in her coaching session. \u201cThat\u2019s the main thing that\u2019s missing in my life&#8211;someone great to share it with. 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