It\u2019s frustrating when you know your marriage is broken and yet your husband won\u2019t do anything about it. He won\u2019t read a marriage book, won\u2019t go to counseling, won\u2019t even have a conversation about it!<\/p>\n
It can make you crazy.<\/p>\n
I mean why even try if he\u2019s not going to do anything?! Especially if the problems are mostly his fault. Then it really seems hopeless that things will ever improve.<\/p>\n
I remember feeling this way early in my marriage. I was dreadfully unhappy and felt neglected and overburdened with the finances and the household chores.<\/p>\n
I often fantasized about divorce, which seemed like it would solve all my problems. But I knew divorcing would have some drawbacks too, so I decided I would get my husband to shape up instead.<\/p>\n
As Catherine Aird said, \u201cIf you can\u2019t be a good example, you\u2019ll just have to be a horrible warning.\u201d<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s what I learned about what NOT to do:<\/strong><\/p>\n Contents<\/p>\n<\/span><\/div>\n