{"id":15294,"date":"2023-03-30T05:00:33","date_gmt":"2023-03-30T12:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/?p=15294"},"modified":"2023-12-20T22:33:51","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T06:33:51","slug":"signs-your-marriage-is-in-trouble","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/signs-your-marriage-is-in-trouble\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Signs Your Marriage Is in Trouble"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When your marriage is in trouble, you know it because you\u2019re worried that something bad is going to happen, like your family getting broken beyond repair.<\/p>\n<p>But how do you know whether your marriage is really in trouble or just going through a phase that everybody goes through?<\/p>\n<p>Here are three signs your marriage is on fire and needs your immediate attention, and what to do about it:<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_39 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-transparent ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/signs-your-marriage-is-in-trouble\/#1_You_resent_the_way_your_husband_is_acting\" title=\"You resent the way your husband is acting\">You resent the way your husband is acting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/signs-your-marriage-is-in-trouble\/#2_You_arent_happy\" title=\"You aren\u2019t happy\">You aren\u2019t happy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/signs-your-marriage-is-in-trouble\/#3_You_dont_know_what_you_want\" title=\"You don\u2019t know what you want\">You don\u2019t know what you want<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_You_resent_the_way_your_husband_is_acting\"><\/span>1. You resent the way your husband is acting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15303\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/resentful-in-marriage.jpg\" alt=\"Resentful In Marriage\" width=\"1336\" height=\"562\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/resentful-in-marriage.jpg 1336w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/resentful-in-marriage-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/resentful-in-marriage-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/resentful-in-marriage-768x323.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/resentful-in-marriage-1200x505.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1336px) 100vw, 1336px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maybe he\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/husband-not-affectionate\/\">withholding affection<\/a> or his time and attention. Maybe he\u2019s giving it to someone else, like the dog or the kids or another woman. Maybe <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/husband-drinks-too-much\/\">he\u2019s drinking every day<\/a> or he\u2019s just plain mean and hurtful all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Who wouldn\u2019t be resentful? It\u2019s only human that if your husband is being reckless or completely uncaring, that\u2019s going to hurt.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you haven\u2019t known how to stop feeling resentful about the ways he\u2019s falling short or not even trying. Resentment comes with the added illusion that you can\u2019t get out of it, that you\u2019re stuck.<\/p>\n<p>But there is a way to get out. Here\u2019s the rope that you can grab onto to climb out of the quicksand of resentment.<\/p>\n<p>Are you ready?<\/p>\n<p>Write this down, if you can.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t be resentful and grateful at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just not possible. It\u2019s like light and dark. You can have one or the other but not both. So if you\u2019re feeling resentful and you decide to count your blessings by making a gratitude list, guess who\u2019s going to have to leave the building? That\u2019s right, resentment.<\/p>\n<p>Granted, it\u2019s not always easy. You might go to make that gratitude list and think, \u201cThere\u2019s nothing! Not one thing I\u2019m grateful for about him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That used to happen to me too!<\/p><div class=\"laura-new-roadmap\" id=\"laura-4107185049\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/adoredwifeweekend.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-17022 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1118\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png 1118w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-150x75.png 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-480x240.png 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-768x384.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1118px) 100vw, 1118px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>But if you can, write down just one thing.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody can come up with one thing, right? There\u2019s definitely one thing you\u2019re grateful for about him, right? And once you\u2019ve written the one thing down, you\u2019re going to have some momentum, so you might as well write down a few more things.<\/p>\n<p>Now resentment will catch on that it\u2019s being evicted and try to persuade you that choosing gratitude is being fake. But if you keep going, reflecting on all the ways your husband has made your life better, past and present, then you\u2019ll banish that resentment and in its place will be something much more enjoyable.<\/p>\n<p>Of course the gratitude will be present, but something else bubbles up, in my experience, when you consciously choose gratitude instead of resentment.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s humility, which is the ability to see where you might have also been wrong so you can take responsibility for it. Even if what he\u2019s doing seems SO MUCH worse than your teeny tiny transgressions.<\/p>\n<p>Marinating in resentment is dangerous for your marriage, of course, but even worse it can make you bitter, which is a painful way to live.<\/p>\n<p>The second sign that your marriage is in trouble is that\u2026<\/p>\n<div class=\"laura-six-intimacy-skills\" id=\"laura-434900510\"><blockquote>\n<h3 style=\"display: inline; font-size: 23px;\">Related Article:<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/six-intimacy-skills\/\">The Number One Most Indispensable Skill for Fixing Your Marriage Fast.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_You_arent_happy\"><\/span>2. You aren\u2019t happy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15304\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happy-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"Happy Relationship\" width=\"1336\" height=\"562\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happy-relationship.jpg 1336w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happy-relationship-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happy-relationship-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happy-relationship-768x323.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happy-relationship-1200x505.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1336px) 100vw, 1336px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You may be thinking, \u201cOf course I\u2019m not happy! My marriage is in trouble!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly what I thought too! I worried that if <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-survive-in-an-unhappy-marriage\/\">I got happy<\/a>, my husband would think that what he was doing was okay, and I didn\u2019t want him to think that! Then my situation would never improve! So I made every effort to let him know I was displeased and miserable.<\/p>\n<p>But that strategy wasn\u2019t very well thought out on my part because it just meant I was going through life unhappy. After I got happy, my marriage got a lot better. Because it turns out, only happy people have happy relationships.<\/p>\n<p>The third sign that your marriage is in trouble is that\u2026<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_You_dont_know_what_you_want\"><\/span>3. You don\u2019t know what you want<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15305\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/struggling-marriage.jpg\" alt=\"Struggling Marriage\" width=\"1336\" height=\"562\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/struggling-marriage.jpg 1336w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/struggling-marriage-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/struggling-marriage-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/struggling-marriage-768x323.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/struggling-marriage-1200x505.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1336px) 100vw, 1336px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re anything like I was back in those bad old days, you\u2019ve been miserable for a while too. And you\u2019re not even sure what you want, except for your <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-rekindle-a-marriage\/\">marriage to be better<\/a> and maybe for him to make you happy. But beyond that?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you\u2019ve been expending so much energy on your struggling marriage you haven\u2019t had time to tune into the subtle yearning from your heart, the vital marching orders your soul is trying to give you through desire.<\/p>\n<p>What are those marching orders?<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re anything like I was, the things I yearned for were too scary to admit, much less do anything about. I didn\u2019t want to make a big deal about them because I didn\u2019t feel deserving. I knew I could suck it up and make do, which seemed safer than giving my desires the opportunity to germinate and spring forth. It was less scary just to exist than it was to honor my dreams.<\/p>\n<p>But ignoring my desires made me less vital and less vibrant, and it made my marriage harder and heavier. Because one of my husband\u2019s highest priorities is my happiness. He desires to see me get my desires. And by not knowing what they were, I was derailing the whole incredible system where he feels successful when I\u2019m happy.<\/p>\n<p>Now that you know these three signs that your marriage is in trouble, you may be wondering, \u201cWell, what about him saying it\u2019s over or putting his attention elsewhere\u2014isn\u2019t that a sign that it\u2019s in big trouble?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In my experience, those issues are scary but <em>solvable<\/em> when you\u2019re tending to your own gratitude, happiness and desires.<\/p>\n<p>Which will you start tending to first? I\u2019d love to hear in the comments\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your marriage is in trouble, you know it because you\u2019re worried that something bad is going to happen, like your family getting broken beyond repair. But how do you know whether your marriage is really in trouble or just going through a phase that everybody goes through? 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