{"id":15332,"date":"2023-04-19T20:00:30","date_gmt":"2023-04-20T03:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/?p=15332"},"modified":"2023-04-19T20:00:36","modified_gmt":"2023-04-20T03:00:36","slug":"what-to-do-if-he-doesnt-want-you-anymore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/what-to-do-if-he-doesnt-want-you-anymore\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Do if He Doesn’t Want You Anymore"},"content":{"rendered":"

If he doesn\u2019t want you anymore, it does hurt\u2014really bad.<\/p>\n

Whether his actions are speaking louder than words and he\u2019s too busy to spend time with you or he\u2019s saying he doesn\u2019t want you and making plans to leave you, or has already left, it can leave you with the excruciating impression that you\u2019re unlovable.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no lonelier feeling than that.<\/p>\n

Well-meaning friends can make it even worse by telling you to stop loving him or to stop trying to make him love you. You\u2019ll hear things like, \u201cThen he doesn\u2019t deserve you! You\u2019ll find someone better.\u201d They might advise you to cut off all ties with him.<\/p>\n

Sure, you could do that. You could become defensive and focus all your energy on walking away and starting again. But what if that\u2019s not what your heart is telling you to do?<\/p>\n

As the French mathematician and philosopher Blaise Pascal wrote, \u201cThe heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of… We know the truth not only by the reason, but by the heart.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Maybe there\u2019s a good reason you still love someone who doesn\u2019t seem to be loving you back right now. Maybe this is just the beginning of your thrilling come-from-behind-and-win-the-game story.<\/p>\n

While you might wish that things could go back to the way they were before this happened, maybe there\u2019s something even better waiting for you.<\/p>\n

At least, that\u2019s what I see happen with students of the Six Intimacy Skills\u2122<\/a> who use the Connection Framework. They\u2019ve gone through this crushing experience of feeling completely rejected and unloved and come out the other side saying their marriage is better than ever.<\/p>\n

But how did they do that? More importantly, how can YOU do that too?<\/p>\n

Here are three 3 things you can do right now to save your marriage.<\/p>\n

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