{"id":16022,"date":"2024-03-05T02:00:39","date_gmt":"2024-03-05T10:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/?p=16022"},"modified":"2024-03-05T07:02:02","modified_gmt":"2024-03-05T15:02:02","slug":"how-to-fall-back-in-love-with-your-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-fall-back-in-love-with-your-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Fall Back in Love with Your Husband"},"content":{"rendered":"

First, a disclaimer: A coach recently shared with me that she decided to become a coach, even though she didn\u2019t love her husband and believed she never would, because she just wanted to be kinder.<\/p>\n

She believed Relationship Coach Training<\/a> would help her become kind, which was her goal\u2014not to fall in love with him. She was actually kind of guarded against that.<\/p>\n

Then she spent a year becoming an expert on the 6 Intimacy Skills\u2122<\/a>, practicing them at the highest level with her classmates. She surprised herself and did start to notice what a great man she had married decades ago.<\/p>\n

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She came to a coach\u2019s call recently to admit that despite her best efforts to just leave him out of this, she was in love with her husband.<\/p>\n

So, like the pirate says in the Pirates of the Caribbean ride, \u201cYou be fairly warned, sez I.\u201d<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t want to fall back in love with your husband, do not, I repeat, DO NOT practice the 6 Intimacy Skills<\/a> with a supportive community and structure or you\u2019ll end up feeling excited and happy to be with your husband.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll end up with a romance instead of a roommate and co-parent in my experience, even if you never fell in love with your husband to begin with.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll seem sexy to you again.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s crazy! I know.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s talk about how that happens, especially if you\u2019re kind of repulsed by your husband now. Or if you\u2019re just bored or feeling so rejected and hurt by him now.<\/p>\n

In that case, it might seem impossible and like I don\u2019t know your husband, which is true.<\/p>\n

I probably don\u2019t, unless he\u2019s one of the husbands I\u2019ve interviewed on The Empowered Wife Podcast during the Man Panel series<\/a>. Even then, I know those husbands only a very little bit.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s what I do know: My husband is not like me. The things that make me feel loved and in love are not the same as the things that make him feel loved and in love.<\/p>

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While they\u2019re completely different, they go together so well, like peanut butter and honey.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s talk about the 3 ways you can be like honey to your man\u2019s peanut butter\u2014and fall in love while you\u2019re at it.<\/p>\n

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