Should you ever come clean about what you\u2019re doing behind his back?<\/p>\n
I got a great note from Theresa, who just read The Empowered Wife<\/em> and got\u2014really got<\/em>\u2014that the marriage problems she has been griping about and wanting her husband to change for years are mostly things she has been mucking up herself.<\/p>\n She wanted to do the experiments in the book without having her husband see it and ask her about it, so she quickly made a book cover to hide the title.<\/p>\n Mostly, she was afraid he\u2019d read it and see where she was going wrong, and say, \u201cI told you so!\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s pretty unlikely, in my experience. As you begin to implement The Intimacy Skills, husbands get happy and chivalrous\u2013\u2013not vindictive and obnoxious.<\/p>\n But there was a problem.<\/p>\n Theresa wanted to make a trek to California to spend three glorious days at the Cherished for Life Weekend<\/a> getting immersed in The Six Intimacy Skills and being The Girl of Fun and Light.<\/p>\n How, she wondered, could she do that without letting the cat out of the bag about what she was doing?<\/p>\n How does anybody get a coach, pay for training or come to the retreat without having her husband find out way too much?<\/p>\n Of course it involves using one of the Intimacy Skills, which I\u2019ll show you.<\/p>\n But why is all of this so hush-hush to begin with?<\/p>\n Contents<\/p>\n<\/span><\/div>\n