{"id":7410,"date":"2018-08-16T04:00:03","date_gmt":"2018-08-16T11:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lauradoyle1.wpengine.com\/?p=7410"},"modified":"2023-12-20T22:34:50","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T06:34:50","slug":"how-to-get-your-husband-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Get Your Husband Back after He Leaves You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I can\u2019t think of anything more painful or heartbreaking than hearing your husband say \u201cI don\u2019t love you anymore. Maybe I never did.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Or \u201cIt\u2019s over. I\u2019m in love with someone else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Or\u2014maybe even worse\u2014to discover those things without him saying anything.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s only human to be angry with him for being such a thoughtless jerk. It&#8217;s natural to want him to hurt the way he hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, there\u2019s no real comfort in making him suffer, even though it\u2019s more tempting than a Cinnabon.<\/p>\n<p>There are, however,\u00a0specific things you can do to give yourself real relief from that continuous ache and to put your family back together.<\/p>\n<p>You can put everything right again but only if you do things very, very differently than you\u2019ve been doing them.<\/p>\n<p>Everything I\u2019m going to suggest will sound counterintuitive. But these radical measures are what I\u2019ve seen breathe new life into broken marriages for thousands of women in your distressing situation\u2014and what I did to revitalize my own broken marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s exactly how to recover the good you had with your husband in the very beginning:<!--more--><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_39 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-transparent ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#1_Suspend_his_sentence_temporarily\" title=\"Suspend his sentence temporarily\">Suspend his sentence temporarily<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#2_Get_happy\" title=\"Get happy\">Get happy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#3_Keep_it_short\" title=\"Keep it short\">Keep it short<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#4_Listen_big\" title=\"Listen big\">Listen big<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#5_Clean_up_your_side_of_the_street\" title=\"Clean up your side of the street\">Clean up your side of the street<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#6_Get_pleasable\" title=\"Get pleasable\">Get pleasable<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#7_Thank_him\" title=\"Thank him\">Thank him<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#8_Skip_marriage_counseling\" title=\"Skip marriage counseling\">Skip marriage counseling<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#9_Smile_at_him\" title=\"Smile at him\">Smile at him<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#10_Stay_off_the_fence\" title=\"Stay off the fence\">Stay off the fence<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#11_Flirt_with_him\" title=\"Flirt with him\">Flirt with him<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#12_Make_every_meeting_a_date\" title=\"Make every meeting a date\">Make every meeting a date<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#13_Seduce_him\" title=\"Seduce him\">Seduce him<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-get-your-husband-back\/#14_Get_Cheerleaders\" title=\"Get Cheerleaders\">Get Cheerleaders<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Suspend_his_sentence_temporarily\"><\/span>1. Suspend his sentence temporarily<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15108 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-betrayal-1.jpg\" alt=\"Husband Betrayal\" width=\"1080\" height=\"455\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-betrayal-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-betrayal-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-betrayal-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-betrayal-1-768x324.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whether he moved out or found someone else or both, that was an incredibly painful betrayal. It was the worst!<\/p>\n<p>I would never diminish how hurtful that is. But he didn\u2019t do it to hurt you. He did it because something was missing in your marriage. You\u2019ve felt it too but didn\u2019t know what to do about it. He didn\u2019t either.<\/p>\n<p>He was vulnerable because your marriage lacked oxygen. It doesn\u2019t make it right, it doesn\u2019t make it okay. It just makes him human.<\/p>\n<p>If you can set aside his crime for the moment and stay focused on the worthy goal of saving your marriage, you\u2019ll give yourself a huge advantage.<\/p><div class=\"laura-new-roadmap\" id=\"laura-1959271781\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/adoredwifeweekend.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-17022 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1118\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png 1118w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-150x75.png 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-480x240.png 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-768x384.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1118px) 100vw, 1118px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>If you\u2019re having a visceral reaction to this idea right now, it&#8217;s not the end of the story. It\u2019s only the beginning, and the story will get much, much better.<\/p>\n<div class=\"laura-six-intimacy-skills\" id=\"laura-4269886168\"><blockquote>\n<h3 style=\"display: inline; font-size: 23px;\">Related Article:<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/six-intimacy-skills\/\">The Number One Most Indispensable Skill for Fixing Your Marriage Fast.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Get_happy\"><\/span>2. Get happy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15110 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/how-to-make-yourself-happy-in-an-unhappy-marriage-1.jpg\" alt=\"How to make yourself happy in an unhappy marriage\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/how-to-make-yourself-happy-in-an-unhappy-marriage-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/how-to-make-yourself-happy-in-an-unhappy-marriage-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/how-to-make-yourself-happy-in-an-unhappy-marriage-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/how-to-make-yourself-happy-in-an-unhappy-marriage-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While it may seem impossible when you\u2019re in the most heartbreaking pain of your life, it\u2019s imperative to make yourself ridiculously happy right away.<\/p>\n<p>Do whatever you have to do to make yourself laugh, feel inspired, delighted, self-expressed, alive, and loved by family and friends.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you\u2019re in shock and grief. It sucks! It feels like your life is on fire, but you can reclaim it by deciding to <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/self-care-activities\/\">have some pleasurable moments every day<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t stress this one enough. It\u2019s an indispensable step to reclaiming what\u2019s rightfully yours: a gratifying life with a monogamous, playful, passionate marriage.<\/p>\n<p>You may one day look back and think of that Dickens book that starts, &#8220;It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s already the worst of times. What can you do today to make it the best of times?<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Keep_it_short\"><\/span>3. Keep it short<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15111 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/marriage-communication-1.jpg\" alt=\"Marriage Communication\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/marriage-communication-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/marriage-communication-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/marriage-communication-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/marriage-communication-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You probably have lots to say to him, but consider keeping it as short and as sweet as you can.<\/p>\n<p>The longer the conversation, the more likely you\u2019re going down the wrong road.<\/p>\n<p>It may feel strange to keep those critical thoughts to yourself when he seems so richly deserving of hearing about the pain he\u2019s caused you. It may seem only fair to tell him how you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Making the choice to be reserved and dignified in your talks with him will pave the way for a brighter future than complaining&#8211;no matter how justified&#8211;ever could.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Listen_big\"><\/span>4. Listen big<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15112 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/emotional-safety-in-marriage-1.jpg\" alt=\"emotional safety in marriage\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/emotional-safety-in-marriage-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/emotional-safety-in-marriage-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/emotional-safety-in-marriage-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/emotional-safety-in-marriage-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead of telling him how hurt and upset you are, consider being on the quiet side and giving him the space to talk by providing emotional safety\u2014no anger, judgment or tears.<\/p>\n<p>For a whole evening (or at least one hour), just say \u201cI hear you\u201d or \u201cuh-huh,\u201d and nothing else.<\/p>\n<p>One woman did this at her marriage counseling sessions, and her husband said, \u201cI keep waiting for you to interrupt me but you\u2019re not!\u201d She just smiled. It wasn\u2019t long before he moved back home.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Clean_up_your_side_of_the_street\"><\/span>5. Clean up your side of the street<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15113 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/clean-up-your-side-of-the-street-1.jpg\" alt=\"clean up your side of the street\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/clean-up-your-side-of-the-street-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/clean-up-your-side-of-the-street-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/clean-up-your-side-of-the-street-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/clean-up-your-side-of-the-street-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have been wronged, and he\u2019s the one who\u2019s behaving badly. But there\u2019s enormous power in inspecting your side of the street for messes you regret and want to clean up.<\/p>\n<p>Look for ways you were critical or controlling. Say, \u201cI apologize for being <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-to-respect-your-husband\/\">disrespectful<\/a> when I&#8230;\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Watch your dignity return.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Get_pleasable\"><\/span>6. Get pleasable<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15114 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thanking-your-husband-1.jpg\" alt=\"Thanking Your Husband\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thanking-your-husband-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thanking-your-husband-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thanking-your-husband-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thanking-your-husband-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your husband tries to make you happy in any way, big or small (and in my experience, he will), do your best to receive the gesture and convey your pleasure at his efforts.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve those efforts, and he\u2019ll feel good knowing he was able to please you.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Thank_him\"><\/span>7. Thank him<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15115 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/focus-on-what-you-want-1.jpg\" alt=\"focus on what you want\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/focus-on-what-you-want-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/focus-on-what-you-want-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/focus-on-what-you-want-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/focus-on-what-you-want-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>With so much going wrong, it will feel strange to look for what\u2019s going right. But if you thank him\u2014for continuing to pay the mortgage, for picking up the kids, for asking how you are\u2014you\u2019ll be focusing on the things you want instead of the things you don\u2019t. And what you focus on increases.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Skip_marriage_counseling\"><\/span>8. Skip marriage counseling<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15116 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/bad-marriage-counseling-1.jpg\" alt=\"bad marriage counseling\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/bad-marriage-counseling-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/bad-marriage-counseling-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/bad-marriage-counseling-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/bad-marriage-counseling-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I dragged <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/my-husband-hates-me\/\">my husband<\/a> to marriage counseling thinking the counselor would fix him so I could finally be happy. It didn&#8217;t work. No couple ever got happier by complaining about each other for an hour a week.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t mean you have to navigate this breakdown by yourself. Instead, <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/marriage-relationship-coaching\/\">get a relationship coach<\/a> who has been in your situation and made her marriage playful and passionate again to guide you.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Smile_at_him\"><\/span>9. Smile at him<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15117 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/happiness-in-marriage-1.jpg\" alt=\"happiness in marriage\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/happiness-in-marriage-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/happiness-in-marriage-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/happiness-in-marriage-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/happiness-in-marriage-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s going to expect anger or tears. What if you freaked him out by smiling when he sees you?<\/p>\n<p>You may not feel like he deserves your smile, but what if this were more about you than him anyway? What if you manifested your commitment to having a happy life, regardless of what your husband is doing?<\/p>\n<p>If he asks why you\u2019re so happy, you can acknowledge that his recent decision reminded you that life is short and you decided to pay more attention to your happiness. He won&#8217;t think you&#8217;re happier without him so much as he will notice how attractive you are when you&#8217;re smiling.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_Stay_off_the_fence\"><\/span>10. Stay off the fence<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15118 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/love-in-marriage-1.jpg\" alt=\"love in marriage\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/love-in-marriage-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/love-in-marriage-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/love-in-marriage-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/love-in-marriage-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There will be days when you think it\u2019s not worth it or that it\u2019s hopeless and stupid to try to save your marriage. <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/when-your-husband-says-he-is-done\/\">When your husband says he is done<\/a>, of course you\u2019ll get discouraged, but your vision of being a happy couple is worthwhile <em>and<\/em> possible.<\/p>\n<p>When you find yourself on the fence about your marriage, find the people in your life who support your vision and let them remind you to jump onto the side of love.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Flirt_with_him\"><\/span>11. Flirt with him<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15119 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/flirt-with-husband-1.jpg\" alt=\"Flirt with Husband\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/flirt-with-husband-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/flirt-with-husband-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/flirt-with-husband-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/flirt-with-husband-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Flirting signals that you feel attractive. You might feel far from that, but here&#8217;s a shortcut for getting back there.<\/p>\n<p>Bring your playful self to your interactions with him.<\/p>\n<p>Send a silly text. Do your happy dance. Laugh when he\u2019s funny, and reference the inside jokes you share.<\/p>\n<p>Flirt and you\u2019ll trick yourself into feeling confident instead of insecure. Feeling confident is the same as being confident.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"12_Make_every_meeting_a_date\"><\/span>12. Make every meeting a date<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15120 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thank-husband-1.jpg\" alt=\"Thank Husband\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thank-husband-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thank-husband-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thank-husband-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thank-husband-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you see him\u2014even if it\u2019s at the divorce attorney&#8217;s, the marriage counselor&#8217;s, or just to hand off the kids\u2014pretend it\u2019s a date.<\/p>\n<p>Dress up and doll up. Let him open the door and thank him with a sweet smile. Have some fun with it.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"13_Seduce_him\"><\/span>13. Seduce him<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15121 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/physical-intimacy-with-husband-1.jpg\" alt=\"physical intimacy with husband\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/physical-intimacy-with-husband-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/physical-intimacy-with-husband-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/physical-intimacy-with-husband-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/physical-intimacy-with-husband-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is your husband we\u2019re talking about, so even if he\u2019s being intimate with someone else, he\u2019s yours, not hers.<\/p>\n<p>You might be tempted to retaliate by locking him out of the bedroom, but when you\u2019re trying to restore intimacy why not start with physical intimacy? It\u2019s a great springboard.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"14_Get_Cheerleaders\"><\/span>14. Get Cheerleaders<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15122 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-loves-me-1.jpg\" alt=\"husband loves me\" width=\"1080\" height=\"454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-loves-me-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-loves-me-1-150x63.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-loves-me-1-480x202.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/husband-loves-me-1-768x323.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You probably know plenty of people who will tell you to throw the bum out or figure out where all the assets are in preparation for a divorce.<\/p>\n<p>But every great come-from-behind-and-win-the-game story has cheerleaders. You\u2019ll need yours too. Find the friends, coach or chat group that supports your vision.<\/p>\n<p>I, for one, am cheering for you not only to save your marriage but to make it magical again.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying it will be easy, but it will be worth it to feel desired, cherished, and adored by your husband again.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can\u2019t think of anything more painful or heartbreaking than hearing your husband say \u201cI don\u2019t love you anymore. Maybe I never did.\u201d Or \u201cIt\u2019s over. I\u2019m in love with someone else.\u201d Or\u2014maybe even worse\u2014to discover those things without him saying anything. 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