{"id":8910,"date":"2017-10-12T04:00:16","date_gmt":"2017-10-12T11:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lauradoyle1.wpengine.com\/?p=8910"},"modified":"2024-10-22T10:37:43","modified_gmt":"2024-10-22T17:37:43","slug":"my-husband-cheated-on-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/my-husband-cheated-on-me\/","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Cheated on Me"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8910\" class=\"elementor elementor-8910\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-277f26c8 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"277f26c8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d202299 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"2d202299\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-221bc737 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"221bc737\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">My Husband Cheated on Me<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-60a0ed23 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"60a0ed23\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to Recover When You Discover Something You Wish Weren\u2019t True<\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d2bc597 elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"7d2bc597\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-b46dcaa elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/author\/stmonday\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-info__item-prefix\">By <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tLaura Doyle\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-afd599c elementor-inline-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-custom\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tUpdated: October 22, 2024\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7453aa22 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7453aa22\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"reviewer highlight\" style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Medically reviewed by <a class=\"url fn n\" style=\"color: #ffffff; border-bottom: 1px dashed #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/dr-liz-hale\/\">Dr. Liz Hale<\/a>\n<div class=\"highlight__tooltip\">\n<div class=\"ld-author-tooltip__top\">\n<div class=\"ld-author-tooltip__image-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"img-placeholder\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"avatar avatar-80 photo entered lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ddac69b7f56b101aabe5e05278f06835?s=80&amp;d=mm&amp;r=g\" srcset=\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ddac69b7f56b101aabe5e05278f06835?s=160&amp;d=mm&amp;r=g 2x\" alt=\"\" width=\"80\" height=\"80\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ddac69b7f56b101aabe5e05278f06835?s=160&amp;d=mm&amp;r=g 2x\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ddac69b7f56b101aabe5e05278f06835?s=80&amp;d=mm&amp;r=g\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><noscript><img alt='' src='https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ddac69b7f56b101aabe5e05278f06835?s=80&#038;d=mm&#038;r=g' srcset='https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ddac69b7f56b101aabe5e05278f06835?s=160&#038;d=mm&#038;r=g 2x' class='avatar avatar-80 photo' height='80' width='80' decoding='async'\/><\/noscript><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ld-author-tooltip__name\">Medically reviewed by <a class=\"url fn n\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/dr-liz-hale\/\">Dr. Liz Hale<\/a><\/div>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-social-links ld-social-nav is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"wp-social-link wp-block-social-link\" style=\"line-height:3px; padding:3px 5px\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/LizHalephd\/\" class=\"wp-block-social-link-anchor\"><svg class=\"social-nav__icon\" width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\"><path d=\"M12 2C6.5 2 2 6.5 2 12c0 5 3.7 9.1 8.4 9.9v-7H7.9V12h2.5V9.8c0-2.5 1.5-3.9 3.8-3.9 1.1 0 2.2.2 2.2.2v2.5h-1.3c-1.2 0-1.6.8-1.6 1.6V12h2.8l-.4 2.9h-2.3v7C18.3 21.1 22 17 22 12c0-5.5-4.5-10-10-10z\"><\/path><\/svg><span class=\"wp-block-social-link-label screen-reader-text\">Facebook<\/span><\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ld-author-tooltip__bio\">Dr. Liz Hale is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist specializing in Marriage Therapy and Discernment Counseling.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2216494f e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2216494f\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-68865bd5 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-framed elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"68865bd5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>When your worst fears are confirmed and you find out your husband has cheated, it\u2019s completely devastating.<\/p><p>News of that betrayal likely brings up fury, deep hurt and even hopelessness.<\/p><p>To make things even worse, he may try to deny it or react with hostility at the mere accusation of cheating, even though\u2013or maybe because\u2013he is guilty as charged.<\/p><p>It\u2019s normal to want to punish him so he knows how much he hurt you.<\/p><p>It\u2019s also normal not to know what to do. You don\u2019t want to feel like a fool, and you already do.<\/p><p>Some friends will tell you to leave him as soon as possible, that his crime is unforgivable.<\/p><p>But what if you\u2019re not ready for life as you know it to end?<\/p><p>What if you want to keep your family together?<\/p><p><em>Here are <strong>4 expert-approved actions<\/strong> to take when your man has cheated.<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ac03bd e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2ac03bd\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1d365ac e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1d365ac\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-05b0b47 elementor-widget elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"05b0b47\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;exclude_headings_by_selector&quot;:&quot;.comment-reply-title&quot;,&quot;headings_by_tags&quot;:[&quot;h2&quot;],&quot;marker_view&quot;:&quot;numbers&quot;,&quot;no_headings_message&quot;:&quot;No headings were found on this page.&quot;,&quot;hierarchical_view&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;min_height&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"table-of-contents.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__header\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-toc__header-title\">\n\t\t\t\tTable of Contents\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div id=\"elementor-toc__05b0b47\" class=\"elementor-toc__body\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__spinner-container\">\n\t\t\t\t<i class=\"elementor-toc__spinner eicon-animation-spin eicon-loading\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-574d020d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"574d020d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51b6b947 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"51b6b947\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d80ba4b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"2d80ba4b\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15717029 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"15717029\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">01<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6070cc59 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6070cc59\" data-element_type=\"widget\" id=\"ask-yourself-if-you-want-to-stay-married\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ask_Yourself_if_You_Want_to_Stay_Married\"><\/span>Ask Yourself if You Want to Stay Married<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e61d5a3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7e61d5a3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Yes, he\u2019s a complete jerk and a terrible person right now. You might wonder why anyone would want to stay married to someone like that.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73716d04 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"73716d04\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"759\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-decide-to-stay-or-leave-a-marriage-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-16491\" alt=\"How to decide to stay or leave a marriage\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-decide-to-stay-or-leave-a-marriage-1.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-decide-to-stay-or-leave-a-marriage-1-150x95.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-decide-to-stay-or-leave-a-marriage-1-480x304.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-decide-to-stay-or-leave-a-marriage-1-768x486.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" loading=\"eager\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b28c06d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b28c06d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>But it\u2019s not always easy to throw away the man you committed to for life in front of God and everybody.<\/p><p>There were a lot of good reasons you married him, and with all that time invested there may be even more reasons to stay with him.<\/p><p>Maybe you don\u2019t want your kids to have a broken home.<\/p><div class=\"laura-new-roadmap\" id=\"laura-150683471\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/adoredwifeweekend.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-17022 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1118\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new.png 1118w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-150x75.png 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-480x240.png 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-new-768x384.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1118px) 100vw, 1118px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><p>Maybe you don\u2019t believe in divorce, or maybe you just don\u2019t want one.<\/p><p>Maybe you still love your husband.<\/p><p>Or maybe, under the mountain of pain you\u2019re feeling, is the inkling that this is all a mistake and the man you truly belong with is deeply confused but the story isn\u2019t over and you can somehow put things right.<\/p><p>Maybe you have faith despite this terrible blow. I admire that.<\/p><p>If the answer to the question \u201cDo I want to stay married to him?\u201d is yes, that doesn\u2019t make you crazy or stupid.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a160ccf elementor-blockquote--skin-border elementor-widget elementor-widget-blockquote\" data-id=\"5a160ccf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"blockquote.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote class=\"elementor-blockquote\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-blockquote__content\">\n\t\t\t\tIf the answer to the question \u201cDo I want to stay married to him?\u201d is yes, that doesn\u2019t make you crazy or stupid.\u00a0\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1bc18b62 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1bc18b62\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It makes you courageous.<\/p><p>If the answer is no, that is also completely understandable. I can see why you feel that way. This is probably not the blog for you, but I wish you well with your divorce and I\u2019m sorry for the pain you\u2019re in and for the loss of your family.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-46efb7b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"46efb7b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e9abbd5 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"7e9abbd5\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-593b34b5 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"593b34b5\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6970a3a5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6970a3a5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">02<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-20728e16 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"20728e16\" data-element_type=\"widget\" id=\"ask-yourself-again-tomorrow\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"laura-six-intimacy-skills\" id=\"laura-652254238\"><blockquote>\n<h3 style=\"display: inline; font-size: 23px;\">Related Article:<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/six-intimacy-skills\/\">The Number One Most Indispensable Skill for Fixing Your Marriage Fast.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div><h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ask_Yourself_Again_Tomorrow\"><\/span>Ask Yourself Again Tomorrow<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f76c16 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f76c16\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Now that we have that settled, it\u2019s not really settled. The same question will probably come up again tomorrow, more than once.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73af4379 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"73af4379\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"759\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/should-I-get-a-divorce-quote.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-16495\" alt=\"Should I get a divorce\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/should-I-get-a-divorce-quote.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/should-I-get-a-divorce-quote-150x95.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/should-I-get-a-divorce-quote-480x304.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/should-I-get-a-divorce-quote-768x486.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" loading=\"eager\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5eda35de elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5eda35de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>That\u2019s okay\u2013you can keep asking yourself what you want as a way to stay tuned into your deepest desires so you can follow them.<\/p><p>One woman who repaired her marriage despite her husband\u2019s ongoing affair asked herself if she wanted to stay married to her husband on the day she found out and every day thereafter, until he came back to her 18 months later.<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px; text-align: start;\">For her the answer was always yes, and today her marriage is stronger than ever.<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px; text-align: start;\">The point is that you don\u2019t have to decide once and for all.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-630255f0 elementor-blockquote--skin-border elementor-widget elementor-widget-blockquote\" data-id=\"630255f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"blockquote.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote class=\"elementor-blockquote\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-blockquote__content\">\n\t\t\t\tYou can make your choices as you go along, knowing that there will be plenty of ups and downs in your journey.\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6709f743 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6709f743\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It\u2019s your indisputable right to change your mind. You\u2019re not trapped in this marriage\u2013you get to choose it every day.<\/p><p>Keep tuning in so you\u2019ll know how you feel and what you want.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5cf6a824 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5cf6a824\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d823803 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"d823803\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-149fd205 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"149fd205\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a20781f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5a20781f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">03<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29a46995 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"29a46995\" data-element_type=\"widget\" id=\"kick-and-scream-and-cry-but-not-at-him\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kick_and_Scream_and_Cry_but_Not_at_Him\"><\/span>Kick and Scream and Cry <br>(but Not at Him)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b24d007 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4b24d007\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Of course you\u2019re hurting and angry and sad! It\u2019s a big deal to find that the ground you\u2019re walking on isn\u2019t as solid as you once believed.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-70c88778 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"70c88778\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"759\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-should-i-do-if-my-husband-is-cheating-on-me-quote-2.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-16494\" alt=\"What should I do if my husband is cheating on me?\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-should-i-do-if-my-husband-is-cheating-on-me-quote-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-should-i-do-if-my-husband-is-cheating-on-me-quote-2-150x95.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-should-i-do-if-my-husband-is-cheating-on-me-quote-2-480x304.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-should-i-do-if-my-husband-is-cheating-on-me-quote-2-768x486.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" loading=\"eager\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4e21bb26 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4e21bb26\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Those excruciating feelings deserve to come out and have their day in the sun, but your husband doesn\u2019t need to be the one who witnesses them.<\/p><p>Write in your journal, tell a bartender or your AA sponsor, your rabbi or priest the whole sad story, or get my\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/rm4o\/\">free Roadmap<\/a>.<\/p><p>Your feelings are valid. You\u2019re hurting and you\u2019re human. We all need to be heard and understood\u2013especially you, especially now.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3892f0c0 elementor-blockquote--skin-border elementor-widget elementor-widget-blockquote\" data-id=\"3892f0c0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"blockquote.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote class=\"elementor-blockquote\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-blockquote__content\">\n\t\t\t\tHaving some safe outlets will help you avoid blowing up or melting down at your husband.\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1d5c73b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1d5c73b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Your instinct may be that he deserves those blowups and meltdowns.<\/p><p>But it\u2019s not him I\u2019m concerned about right now; it\u2019s you I\u2019m thinking about.<\/p><p>My blowups and meltdowns were a release in the short run but never made me feel better in the long run. I ended up with an emotional hangover and the remorse of knowing I couldn\u2019t take any of it back. I didn\u2019t feel very dignified either.<\/p><p>Even though I wanted to let my husband have it, I didn\u2019t like who I became in those moments, and they never got me closer to the kind of marriage I wanted.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-70bdfa5d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"70bdfa5d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-56e455db e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"56e455db\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7db48b3b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"7db48b3b\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2523e179 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2523e179\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">04<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7bbee198 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7bbee198\" data-element_type=\"widget\" id=\"see-the-possibilities\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;none&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"See_the_Possibilities\"><\/span>See the Possibilities<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-788f341c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"788f341c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>You could also share your feelings with close friends or family, but consider doing so cautiously. When you share the hurtful things your husband has done, often those closest to you, who want to protect you, will say \u201cYou should leave him.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e8977e4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6e8977e4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"759\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-save-a-marriage-after-cheating-quote.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-16504\" alt=\"How to save a marriage after cheating\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-save-a-marriage-after-cheating-quote.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-save-a-marriage-after-cheating-quote-150x95.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-save-a-marriage-after-cheating-quote-480x304.jpg 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/how-to-save-a-marriage-after-cheating-quote-768x486.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" loading=\"eager\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-506a3e6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"506a3e6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>One woman asked her husband to leave only after several friends told her she should, but she came to regret that decision when she realized that what she wanted most was to save her marriage.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b814511 elementor-blockquote--skin-border elementor-widget elementor-widget-blockquote\" data-id=\"b814511\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"blockquote.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote class=\"elementor-blockquote\">\n\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-blockquote__content\">\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019ve heard from many women who regretted telling their husbands to leave but never from one who regretted letting him stay.\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/blockquote>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a270306 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a270306\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I have also heard from many women who have used the Connection Framework to restore her marriage to playful and passionate after an affair. Even when the cheating husband wasn\u2019t ready to stop. Even though he said he didn\u2019t love her anymore. Even when he insisted he was divorcing her.<\/p><p>These women report their marriages are better than ever and that the cheating does not define their marriage because their connection and commitment are now so strong.<\/p><p>That\u2019s possible for you too. You may feel powerless right now, but so much of what happens in your marriage as a result of this crisis is up to you.<\/p><p>As Norman Vincent Peale wrote, \u201cNo matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities\u2013always see them, for they\u2019re always there.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-37811fe0 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"37811fe0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5d006fb9 elementor-author-box--avatar-yes elementor-author-box--name-yes elementor-author-box--link-no elementor-widget elementor-widget-author-box\" data-id=\"5d006fb9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"author-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-author-box\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/author\/stmonday\/\" class=\"elementor-author-box__avatar\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7172b3b4f0097d38b82e7d909144e19f2ff2293df9132bffbfaf448585eaea3f?s=300&#038;d=mm&#038;r=g\" alt=\"Picture of Laura Doyle\" loading=\"lazy\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-author-box__text\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/author\/stmonday\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-author-box__name\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tLaura Doyle\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/h4>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-76fd0a51 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"76fd0a51\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-108e58a8 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"108e58a8\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5fb0a54d e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"5fb0a54d\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-52d093c1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"52d093c1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Hi! I&#8217;m Laura.<\/p><p>New York Times Bestselling Author<\/p><p>I was the perfect wife&#8211;until I actually got married. When I tried to tell my husband how to be more romantic, more ambitious, and tidier, he avoided me. I dragged him to marriage counseling and nearly divorced him. I then started talking to women who had what I wanted in their marriages and that\u2019s when I got my miracle. The man who wooed me returned.<\/p><p>I wrote a few books about what I learned and accidentally started a worldwide movement of women who practice The Six Intimacy Skills\u2122 that lead to having amazing, vibrant relationships. 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