{"id":9124,"date":"2018-02-22T04:00:44","date_gmt":"2018-02-22T12:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/?p=9124"},"modified":"2024-05-28T11:05:47","modified_gmt":"2024-05-28T18:05:47","slug":"how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Changed My Family\u2019s Legacy of Divorce to One of Strong, Happy Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Carol, Empowered Wife<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I come from generations of divorce. It seemed that was to be the destiny of my 26-year marriage as well.<\/p>\n<p>Raising three children, self-employment, financial challenges and stress all put tremendous pressure on my husband and me, and our relationship was beaten down.<\/p>\n<p>I resented the lack of partnership from him and felt very alone raising our children. The economy drop hurt our finances severely, and my fears consumed me\u2014something he didn\u2019t know how to handle.<\/p>\n<p>When I expressed my fear, he heard only criticism and we were off to the races, not understanding one another on any level. I tried to fix things, but my control hurt our marriage and pushed him away. I lacked the tools to navigate these marital challenges.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I had no clue that a few simple skills could help me end the cycle of divorce in my family.<!--more--><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>My husband and I had been separated five months when I found Laura Doyle online. I began studying and went to the Cherished for Life Weekend. I was empowered as a woman to surrender control and grow into a better version of myself, which brought out the best in my husband too.<\/p>\n<p>We began to heal.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing I learned was how important it was to take care of myself again, as raising children and working so much had drained me and left me unclear of who Carol was anymore. I had always prioritized everyone else before myself, and that wasn\u2019t working for me or serving my family.<\/p>\n<p>I learned that when my cup is full, I can more easily handle the ups and downs of life. My joy returned as I practiced <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/self-care-ideas\/\">self-care<\/a> and focused on the only thing I could control: me.<\/p>\n<p>I was empowered to choose love and faith over fear and to implement the Six Intimacy Skills\u2122. My husband and I reunited two months later. Today, he is my hero again.<\/p>\n<p>Just last night he came home and installed the mirror I&#8217;ve been wanting. I know he was tired after a long day&#8217;s work, yet he still wanted to make me happy.<\/p>\n<p>He now does laundry and cooking&#8211;anything he can to pitch in and help&#8211;not to mention rubbing my feet on the couch. I love that, almost as much as I do us dancing and laughing together in the kitchen!<\/p>\n<p>Laura gave me the skills to rebuild our relationship and bring out the best in my man\u2014and begin healing my family as well. I can now help mold the next generation with positive relationship skills by modeling a new legacy: strong marriage and family.<\/p><div class=\"laura-new-roadmap\" id=\"laura-2832363523\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/adoredwifeweekend.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17020\" src=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1118\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal.png 1118w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-150x75.png 150w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-480x240.png 480w, https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Banner-Horizontal-768x384.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1118px) 100vw, 1118px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>As I\u2019ve learned to <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/my-husband-is-passive-aggressive\/\">shift away from negativity and fear<\/a>, I have realized that so much has to do with the stories we tell.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, while half of my heritage has generations of divorce, the other side has generations of long-term marriage. In fact, my paternal grandparents were married 71 years. I now choose to claim that legacy.<\/p>\n<p>And so I begin this introduction again\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I come from a legacy of committed marriage. And I am committed to empowering other women to learn the Intimacy Skills to heal their families of the impact of stress, financial struggles, anger and resentment. Together we can turn even the most hopeless relationship into a marriage where you feel the love and closeness you felt when you were newly wed.<\/p>\n<p>After all, isn\u2019t that what we all deserve?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Carol, Empowered Wife I come from generations of divorce. It seemed that was to be the destiny of my 26-year marriage as well. Raising three children, self-employment, financial challenges and stress all put tremendous pressure on my husband and me, and our relationship was beaten down. I resented the lack of partnership from him\u2026 <a href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16174,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_stopmodifiedupdate":false,"_modified_date":"","content-type":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[709],"tags":[],"app":[],"class_list":["post-9124","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-divorce-and-separation"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How I Changed My Family\u2019s Legacy of Divorce to that of Strong, Happy Marriage<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Carol shares how she went from feeling alone and resentful to her husband being her hero.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How I Changed My Family\u2019s Legacy of Divorce to that of Strong, Happy Marriage\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Carol shares how she went from feeling alone and resentful to her husband being her hero.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Laura Doyle Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lauradoyle.org\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:author\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lauradoyle.org\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2018-02-22T12:00:44+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2024-05-28T18:05:47+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1200\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"628\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Laura Doyle\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@lauramdoyle\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@lauramdoyle\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Laura Doyle\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Laura Doyle\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/96ba2d9652e0d061581f6148ca656678\"},\"headline\":\"How I Changed My Family\u2019s Legacy of Divorce to One of Strong, Happy Marriage\",\"datePublished\":\"2018-02-22T12:00:44+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-05-28T18:05:47+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/\"},\"wordCount\":593,\"commentCount\":5,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/96ba2d9652e0d061581f6148ca656678\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/how-i-changed-my-familys-legacy-of-divorce.jpg\",\"articleSection\":[\"Divorce &amp; 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