In the bad old days, when my husband John and I used to fight all the time or have cold wars, there was plenty of relationship drama. It wasn’t much fun, but over time, I got used to it.
Drama on the home front was my habit.
When I finally discovered and started practicing The Six Intimacy Skills and my relationship got more playful and passionate, things were also a lot calmer at our house.
When I wasn’t saying critical, disrespectful, and controlling things to my husband, at first I felt like I had nothing to say to him (which says a lot about how critical, disrespectful, and controlling I had been before).
It felt really odd. It was like we had little to talk about compared to before. It was peaceful, but it was also strangely quiet.
I was uncomfortable. I felt like something was missing.Read More›