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Married but still lonely
A few years in, I cried myself to sleep while our counselor said I’d be better off without John. Instead, I asked happily married wives for their secrets. They sounded crazy. They worked. One day his face lit up when I came home.
Thirty-six years in, John makes my tea every morning. What those wives taught me became the Six Intimacy Skills™ — and my life’s work. Start where everyone starts:
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FAQs
Questions you might be asking right now
We're more like roommates than a couple — can this come back?
Yes — and sooner than you’d think. When affection fades, it’s so lonely and disappointing, but it’s not gone for good; it’s just buried under tension, distance, and too much talking about the problem. I didn’t get it back by asking him to change. I got it back by using some simple skills that, if you’re like most of us, no one ever taught you. . The spark tends to come back faster than you’d ever guess — often in about two weeks.
I'm exhausted from carrying the relationship — is it supposed to be this hard?
No. And that exhaustion is telling you something, just like it was with me when I was so tired from carrying everything. So many of us over-function out of habit, and without meaning to, we crowd out his instinct to step up. When you set the load down, get comfortable with receiving, and let him solve the problem, you trigger his hero instinct — he tends to rise to it, and you finally get to breathe.
Why doesn't my husband seem to love me anymore?
When a man says he doesn’t love you, it’s excruciatingly painful, but this is what he really means: “I don’t feel respected — and haven’t for a long time.” He’s not saying it to hurt you (even though it hurts terribly). And respect, like love, is something you can both choose again — which makes this far more fixable than it feels right now.
What do men actually want in a relationship?
It seems mystifying sometimes, but men want less than you’d think — and not what you’d guess. What men really want is simpler than it sounds: to feel respected, to be received, to feel appreciated and to know you’re happy. You may have been giving him so much more than that thinking it was your job as his wife, but doing a lot less will actually make you both so much happier.
How do I feel desired — and desirable — again?
Desire follows your energy, not his behaviour. When you refill your own tank — self-care, your own friends and interests, showing up playful and confident — you become magnetic, and his attention follows. Whether he’s been choosing his friends over you or you simply want to attract him in bed again, the shift starts the same way: chasing him pushes him away, and making yourself happy draws him back.
My marriage is in crisis — can I save it?
More often than you’d believe — even when it feels like the end. From a midlife crisis, to looking at other women, to the way he talks to you starting to hurt, these patterns usually aren’t beyond reach — they tend to soften once he feels respected and safe again. You have far more power to turn this around than it feels like right now — even if you’re the only one trying.
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The Six Intimacy Skills, step by step
The surprising way to attract his time, attention, and affection — laid out chapter by chapter in The Empowered Wife. Read it on paper, on your Kindle, or let me read it to you on audio.
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