I feel that my husband doesn't love me

027: What to do When Your Husband Says He Doesn’t Love You

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: WHAT TO DO WHEN MY HUSBAND SAYS HE DOESN’T LOVE ME Being married to a man who was once affectionate and thoughtful, but isn’t anymore, is painful and heartbreaking. I still remember what that was like. It hurts just thinking about it, even though that was years ago. But what if the underlying problem was something you could fix pretty quickly, once you knew how? Because

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I feel rejected by my husband

026: How to Work on Your Relationship When Your Husband Refuses

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: HOW TO WORK ON MY RELATIONSHIP WHEN MY HUSBAND REFUSES Some men go to marriage counseling willingly, but most do so grudgingly, and still more flat-out refuse. They won’t read a book about relationships and don’t seem interested in talking about the problems either. It can be incredibly frustrating for a wife who knows that her marriage isn’t what it could be. After all, if he

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How to stop my husband's verbal abuse?

025: How to Stop His Emotional Abuse

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: HOW CAN I STOP MY HUSBAND’S VERBAL ABUSE? Is your man cruel at times? Does he swear, yell and call you names? Does it undermine your self-esteem? If so, then you may be verbally abused. What if there’s no fight, no warning and your husband’s harsh, hurtful words appear to be coming out of nowhere? Then what? I’ve made an interesting discovery about verbal abuse and

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How to ge my husband to listen to me

024: How to Get Your Husband to Listen

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY HUSBAND TO LISTEN TO ME? Having the same conversation again and again, the one that turns into an argument or a cold war every time, gets old fast. But when your husband isn’t holding up his end of the parenting, finances or household maintenance, you end up stuck holding the bag, which is exhausting. You’re likely to get resentful

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How to help my husbands mid-life crisis

023: How To Manage His Mid-Life Crisis

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR HUSBAND IS HAVING A MIDLIFE CRISIS? How do you keep your connection, your cool and your dignity when your husband is having a midlife crisis? If you’ve ever experienced your husband taking what looks like a sudden turn off of family life lane and speeding down immature, selfish highway—possibly in a new sports car—then you’ve probably suspected him of having a

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Why is my husband not earning enough money

022: When Your Husband Doesn’t Earn Enough

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What to do if my husband doesn’t earn enough? By the time you’re done listening to this podcast, you’ll know how to inspire your husband to be more prosperous. What I’m going to share with you is powerful whether he’s out of work, retired, or just under-earning. But it is not at all obvious. In fact, it’s completely counter-intuitive. At least, it was for me, and

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What to do if my husband dringks too much

021: What If Your Husband Drinks Too Much?

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What If Your Husband Drinks Too Much? Like anyone who drinks too much, your husband gets annoying and stupid when he’s intoxicated. It might be nice if he never did that, but the bigger question is whether your man’s drinking is over the line. Maybe he drinks every night, or drinks to oblivion on a regular basis, or gets mean when he drinks. Maybe he’s missed

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What to do if my husband has low self esteem

020: If Your Husband Has Low Self-Esteem

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What To Do If Your Guy Has Low Self-esteem? A confident man is a sexy man. But an insecure guy is not very appealing. When you see his doubts and low self-esteem, his indecision or inability to handle a situation you could manage with half your brain tied behind your back, it’s a turnoff. You start to wonder what you ever saw in the guy. You

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What to do if my husband doesn't love me?

019: When Your Husband Doesn’t Love You

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Love You? When your husband actually says the words, “I don’t love you,” the hurt comes in waves. First, there’s shock and bewilderment. Your mind races with questions. How did this happen? How long has he felt this way? Then there’s terror. What does this mean for our future? For our marriage? For our kids? Then there’s deep, deep

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What to do when my husband doesn't pay attention to me

018: How To Get Your Husband To Pay Attention To You

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: How to Get Your Husband to Pay Attention to You Sometimes it feels like everything else is more important to your husband than you are: work, the kids, whoever is texting him. Even the dog gets more of his time than you do! You’re craving his attention so much it hurts, and yet the whole day passes–and the next and the next–and he has barely acknowledged

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What to do when my husband never apologizes

017: When Your Husband Never Apologizes

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: If you’re anything like I was, when you fight with your partner you both say nasty things. It can be shocking to see how low this thing you live with will go. And while I’ve said some regrettable things during a fight, the biggest thing on my mind when it’s over is that he owes me an apology. Big time! And it’d better be a good

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016: When Your Husband Hurts Your Feelings

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: My husband hurts my feelings sometimes, even now that our marriage has been mostly playful and passionate for many years. It’s not very often anymore, I admit, but as human beings living in close proximity that’s happens occasionally. When he does, my knee-jerk reaction is to strike back; To show him why he’s wrong and offer 10 airtight defenses along with a subtle–but sharp–insult. But now

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