WE HELP WOMEN FIX RELATIONSHIPS WITH STORIES OF HOW WE FIXED OUR OWN
“EVERY MASTER WAS ONCE A DISASTER”
-T. HARV EKER
So Many Marriages Are Falling Apart
We’re on a mission to end world divorce through relationship coaching with the 6 Intimacy Skills™, and by training and certifying* relationship coaches who are experts on The Skills.
We’re here to serve and support every woman who wants a playful, passionate relationship, even if that doesn’t seem possible. We stand for marriage, which means we’re standing for you and the man you chose.
I Was The PERFECT Wife. Then, I Got Married.
Early on in my marriage, I saw a few things my husband could improve
I told him how to clean better, be more romantic, and also how to be more ambitious.
That didn’t work. At all.
It seemed like whatever I said he would dig in his heels and do the opposite. It was lonely and painful, especially since he didn’t want to spend any time with me, or even make love to me.
I started to see what a mistake I made when I chose this loser!
Obviously we needed marriage counseling, so I signed us up. We went for over a year, but it didn’t make him straighten up.
I was sitting on the marriage counselor’s gray couch when I realized my marriage was hopeless. He was NEVER going to change and my options were to spend the rest of my life in a loveless marriage, like estranged roommates, or else get a divorce.
There was just one problem: I was too embarrassed to get divorced…
So I started asking women who had happy marriages for their secrets.
I figured they would say, “You should have picked somebody better.” But they didn’t.
What they did say didn’t even make sense to me, but I was desperate, so I decided to experiment with their crazy-sounding ideas.
And that’s when I got my miracle.
One day I came home, and his face lit up. He was happy to see me again. And that had been gone.
I thought, “Wow! This is working!”
I wrote a book about what I learned and shared about it on The Today Show, Good Morning America, and The View. It went to #1 on Amazon, became a New York Times bestseller, and was translated into 19 languages in 30 countries.
That’s how I accidentally started a worldwide movement of women who practice The 6 Intimacy Skills™ that make relationships playful and passionate. I was just trying to save my own marriage.
Thousands of women reached out to me. They wanted more support with practicing the Skills they read about in the book The Empowered Wife, so I…
Got overwhelmed and ran away for a while, if I’m honest.
Then I had the (terrifying) idea to star a Relationship Coach Certification Program.
Relationship Coach Certification Program
I trained hundreds of the best relationship coaches in the world, including Master Relationship Coach Kathy Murray. That was brilliant because then Kathy stepped in to create and run the coaching organization with hundreds of coaches and growing. Phew!
Kathy and I created coaching programs that include a community where thousands of previously hopeless women get support to make their hurting marriages shiny and amazing. We discovered that group coaching was the fast track for women to fix their marriages, so all of our programs include group coaching.
That’s how the Connection Framework™ was born. Every day our students join multiple group coaching calls, post in our private community for support, work with one of our powerhouse coaches privately, or get training on how to practice the Six Intimacy Skills.
We created the Adored Wife Circle as a launchpad where women who think that having a great marriage is important (because it is!) could meet the coaches and figure out the best next step to improve their relationships.
We started The Empowered Wife Podcast to interview women who had been in the trenches with real marriage problems, big ones! Like alcoholism and addiction, another woman, a narcissistic or depressed husband, abuse, abandonment and sexless relationships. Hundreds of podcast guests have shared how they fixed their marriage against all odds so that listeners can do it too.
Relationship Coach Training and Certification Program
I trained hundreds of the best relationship coaches in the world, including Master Relationship Coach Kathy Murray. That was brilliant because then Kathy stepped in to create and run the coaching organization with hundreds of coaches and growing. Phew!
Kathy and I created coaching programs that include a community where thousands of previously hopeless women get support to make their hurting marriages shiny and amazing. We discovered that group coaching was the fast track for women to fix their marriages, so all of our programs include group coaching.
That’s how the Connection Framework™ was born. Every day our students join multiple group coaching calls, post in our private community for support, work with one of our powerhouse coaches privately, or get training on how to practice the Six Intimacy Skills.
We created the Adored Wife Circle as a launchpad where women who think that having a great marriage is important (because it is!) could meet the coaches and figure out the best next step to improve their relationships.
We started The Empowered Wife Podcast to interview women who had been in the trenches with real marriage problems, big ones! Like alcoholism and addiction, another woman, a narcissistic or depressed husband, abuse, abandonment and sexless relationships. Hundreds of podcast guests have shared how they fixed their marriage against all odds so that listeners can do it too.
The Great Man I Married
The thing I’m most proud of in the whole world is my playful, passionate, 34-year marriage with my brilliant, hilarious husband John, who has been dressing himself since before I was born.
He published my first book, which is how all of this got started!
But we never would’ve made it this long and been this ridiculously happy without the community of coaches, coach trainees, students, and book readers, who inspire me and remind me to take a nap, have frivolous fun and apologize for being disrespectful. Then I can remember that I married a great man who isn’t perfect, but he’s perfect for me.