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If He DOESN’T RESPECT YOU, Do This To Get Him To CHANGE!
You know that moment when your husband says something rude or dismissive and you wonder how you ended up with someone so disrespectful?
It’s natural to want to explain your hurt and try to make him understand his behavior isn’t acceptable.
But what if the shift that brings respect and tenderness isn’t in saying more—but in staying with yourself instead?
In this episode, I share a gentle, powerful practice that shifted everything in my marriage. By staying grounded and honoring my own feelings first, I invited emotional safety without having to argue or convince him.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- The simple phrase that invites his tenderness and protection instantly
- How honoring your own feelings builds inner strength
- Why vulnerability is your secret weapon for stopping fights in their tracks
- The powerful shift that can curb disrespect and elicit an apology
- How bringing your own self-respect transforms every relationship in your life
Step into your own power and watch how your husband responds with care, attention, and intimacy.
This episode gives you the exact steps to start creating that connection today.
I needed this reminder. Today(!) Thank you. Gold to the rescue!
So glad to hear Liz!
Cheering you on,
Coach Brenda
I loved this powerful little tip of using the simple word, “Ouch!” So simple yet so hard to remember to do in the moment. I’ll keep trying. Thank you for the reminder!
You got this Marsha!
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Cheering you on,
Coach Brenda
Love this. I’ve tried ouch, but he responds by mocking me. I still say it and feel forced to leave the room.
Hi Jen,
Ouch. That sounds hurtful to have insult added to injury.
I had a similar challenge when things just weren’t landing how I expected and it was frustrating. I’d love to support you feeling more respected and cherished in your relationship.
Have you gotten The Adored Wife Roadmap yet? It’s free, and once you get started with that, I can share more with you about how to fix this and get back to a playful, passionate marriage.
Warmly,
Coach Brenda