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What To Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Love You?
When your husband actually says the words, “I don’t love you,” the hurt comes in waves.
First, there’s shock and bewilderment.
Your mind races with questions. How did this happen? How long has he felt this way?
Then there’s terror. What does this mean for our future? For our marriage? For our kids?
Then there’s deep, deep hurt.
He doesn’t love you. Does it mean you’re unlovable?
Making that immense pain stop becomes your imperative.
You feel the urge to protect yourself with aloofness or insults. It’s just human nature.
Flinging some hurtful arrows his way seems not only justified, but necessary.
But the words, “I don’t love you,” can be the breakdown before the breakthrough.
They can be the gateway to a marriage that exceeds your imagination, where you feel as loved and connected as you did when you were first dating.
And you can have all of that with the guy who just said he didn’t love you, or is acting like he doesn’t.
Today on the podcast I’m sharing:
- 3 secrets that can quickly turn the breakdown of feeling like your husband doesn’t love you into a breakthrough.
- My guest Jo’s husband was working two full-time jobs and never had time for her. He kept his distance from Jo as much as possible. She was exhausted from the burden of running their 3 businesses and they were living like roommates and business partners with no physical or romantic connection. But today she’s married to a man who can’t do enough to please her. He takes her on romantic trips and wows her. She truly knows her husband is crazy about her! She’s going to tell us exactly what she did to cause that incredible transformation.
- Then I’ll be giving out the award for The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week which you hear a lot as the reason a couple ends their relationship. And the implication is that this could happen to anybody and then you’d just have to breakup or get divorced but that’s just NOT the case.
Hi! I’m Laura.
I was the perfect wife–until I actually got married. When I tried to tell my husband how to be more romantic, more ambitious, and tidier, he avoided me. I dragged him to marriage counseling and nearly divorced him. I then started talking to women who had what I wanted in their marriages and that’s when I got my miracle. The man who wooed me returned.
I wrote a few books about what I learned and accidentally started a worldwide movement of women who practice The Six Intimacy Skills™ that lead to having amazing, vibrant relationships. The thing I’m most proud of is my playful, passionate relationship with my hilarious husband John–who has been dressing himself since before I was born.