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What to do if my husband dringks too much

021: What If Your Husband Drinks Too Much?

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What If Your Husband Drinks Too Much? Like anyone who drinks too much, your husband gets annoying and stupid when he’s intoxicated. It might be nice if he never did that, but the bigger question is whether your man’s drinking is over the line. Maybe he drinks every night, or drinks to oblivion on a regular basis, or gets mean when he drinks. Maybe he’s missed

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What to do if my husband has low self esteem

020: If Your Husband Has Low Self-Esteem

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What To Do If Your Guy Has Low Self-esteem? A confident man is a sexy man. But an insecure guy is not very appealing. When you see his doubts and low self-esteem, his indecision or inability to handle a situation you could manage with half your brain tied behind your back, it’s a turnoff. You start to wonder what you ever saw in the guy. You

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What to do if my husband doesn't love me?

019: When Your Husband Doesn’t Love You

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Love You? When your husband actually says the words, “I don’t love you,” the hurt comes in waves. First, there’s shock and bewilderment. Your mind races with questions. How did this happen? How long has he felt this way? Then there’s terror. What does this mean for our future? For our marriage? For our kids? Then there’s deep, deep

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What to do when my husband doesn't pay attention to me

018: How To Get Your Husband To Pay Attention To You

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: How to Get Your Husband to Pay Attention to You Sometimes it feels like everything else is more important to your husband than you are: work, the kids, whoever is texting him. Even the dog gets more of his time than you do! You’re craving his attention so much it hurts, and yet the whole day passes–and the next and the next–and he has barely acknowledged

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What to do when my husband never apologizes

017: When Your Husband Never Apologizes

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: If you’re anything like I was, when you fight with your partner you both say nasty things. It can be shocking to see how low this thing you live with will go. And while I’ve said some regrettable things during a fight, the biggest thing on my mind when it’s over is that he owes me an apology. Big time! And it’d better be a good

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016: When Your Husband Hurts Your Feelings

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: My husband hurts my feelings sometimes, even now that our marriage has been mostly playful and passionate for many years. It’s not very often anymore, I admit, but as human beings living in close proximity that’s happens occasionally. When he does, my knee-jerk reaction is to strike back; To show him why he’s wrong and offer 10 airtight defenses along with a subtle–but sharp–insult. But now

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Why I am not attracted to my husband anymore

015: When Your Husband Is Not Attracted To You

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: One of the most common problems I hear from wives is, “My husband is not attracted to me anymore.” It’s always heartbreaking because I remember how lousy that felt. Like me, these women usually think the problem is either that she married the wrong guy or that her weight, her age, or her post-baby body has made her less beautiful. And it’s painful to think you

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Who has the most power in your relationship?

014: Who Has The Most Power in Your Relationship?

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: If you have ever felt annoyed about how I always talk about what wives and girlfriends can do to fix their relationships and never what husbands can do, you’re not alone. It’s so reasonable to ask, “Why is it always on the woman to fix the relationship?” I mean, relationships take two for sure. So why does he get a pass on his bad behavior? So

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013: How to Make Your Marriage Emotionally Safe

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: If you’ve ever caught your man lying about where he was, who he was with or what he was doing, you know how much it stings. If the lies were to cover up his drinking, smoking or who he was with, it can shake you to your core. After all, how much worse can it get than him lying to his wife? What else is he

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How to Be Feminine and be 10X More Attractive

012: How to Be Feminine and be 10X More Attractive

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: As a young adult, it made me angry when someone implied that men and women are different because that showed they were prejudiced. I saw that as the old, unenlightened thinking. I smugly believed I knew the truth: everyone was the same, regardless of gender. But I didn’t know how to be feminine or even recognize my own astonishing power as a woman. I equated femininity

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011: How to be Happily Married to a Narcissist

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: Being married to someone who’s preoccupied with his own attributes is lonely and tiring. When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, hypersensitivity is the norm. It’s frustrating when you make a comment and he gets defensive at the perceived attack when you didn’t intend one. Narcissists are known for having challenges in sustaining satisfying relationships. The big question is, can being married to a narcissist

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