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Should I Leave My Husband?
Have you ever looked at your husband and wondered, “How did I get here?” That’s exactly where Jamie found herself after 23 years of marriage. She wasn’t in love anymore. In fact, she described her marriage as feeling like “a life sentence.”
Divorce wasn’t an option because of her faith, but staying meant accepting a future of misery. She’d been living “on the fence” emotionally because it felt safer than risking more disappointment.
Then everything came to a head during a walk when her husband said something that shocked her into finally making a decision. But choosing to stay was just the beginning—she had to learn how to win back a husband who was keeping his distance to protect his own heart.
Today, Jamie describes her husband as the wind under her wings and she says her marriage is “happy, connected, easy and fun.” Her husband became her rock, supporting her through burnout to win Australian Midwife of the Year—complete with fireworks shooting from the stage.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- The surprising childhood memory that became the key to getting off the fence
- The lifeline Jamie discovered when she was crippled by pain and couldn’t see a way forward
- The one skill that softened Jamie’s heart and made her feel attracted to her husband again
- What she did when she felt “fobbed off” and how that became the turning point in her journey
- The painful truth about why he’d stopped trying to please her—and how one simple request changed everything
- The unexpected moment on the grass when she finally knew they were going to make it through together
Jamie’s transformation proves that even when you feel completely out of love and trapped, there’s a way back to connection and joy.
If you’re living “on the fence” because it feels safer, exhausted from trying to win back someone who seems indifferent, or wondering if it’s possible to fall back in love after years of disappointment, Jamie’s breakthrough will show you exactly how to create the transformation you’ve been longing for.
Perfect for: Women who feel trapped in marriage, wives who’ve fallen out of love with their husband, anyone living “on the fence” emotionally, women considering divorce but wanting to try everything first, or those wondering if it’s possible to fall back in love after years of distance.