LISTEN TO THE SHOW:  In-laws vs. Outlaws: Only One Is Wanted Okay, I don’t have much to say about outlaws. I just love that joke, that the difference between outlaws and in-laws is that outlaws are wanted. That’s because in-laws can be annoying and get on your very last nerve! They might be nosy, overbearing, or passive-aggressive, but you can’t get rid of them, as much as you might

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: My Husband Doesn’t Respect Me It feels really bad when the man who promised to love honor and cherish you sneers at you when you’re talking, takes sides with the kids, doesn’t bother to answer you when you’re saying something important, makes demands or criticizes you. It’s so hurtful and insulting. You start to feel like you’re always on guard to protect yourself, which is tiring

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: My Husband is in Love With Someone Else First of all, I don’t even have kids to disrespect me, so this could be a really short podcast because what do I know?! Sure, I know what it’s like to be disrespected by exceedingly short people; it is so frustrating because I can just pick them up and drop them on the bed while they giggle relentlessly

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What is Emotional Cheating? If you suspect your man is just a little too emotionally intimate with another woman, it feels terrible. It’s threatening because emotional intimacy was a big part of how you two fell in love to begin with. It could signal that he’s falling for someone else, which is not right. You shouldn’t have to fear that some other woman is having the

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: My Husband is in Love With Someone Else What could be worse than knowing that your husband loves someone else when he should be devoted to you and only you? This should not be happening. It’s so wrong! And a terrible rejection to know he finds someone else so alluring that he’s willing to put everything he has with you at risk. I mean, is she

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What Does It Mean When Your Husband Rejects You Sexually? Going from feeling desired and sexy to getting rejected by your own husband is a terrible feeling. Is there something wrong with him? Is there something wrong with you? Is it because you’re not as attractive as you used to be? Either way, it’s scary to think about a dreary future with little to no passion. 

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: For a Long Lasting Marriage, Say This Phrase Every Day. Not only will this phrase help make your marriage last a lifetime, it will also help your marriage stay shiny and amazing. Because it’s not just the words coming out of your mouth and your husband hearing them that make them powerful. Although that’s certainly part of it, and he will respond to you better.  This

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: Connection Framework: Paying it Forward We’ve discovered four things that are pivotal for wives fixing their marriage. But one in particular helps you make quantum leaps in your marriage because it helps the 6 Intimacy Skills stick. It’s when I started practicing this piece that I got my miracle of feeling loved, desired, taken care of and special every day—more than ever over 20 years later.

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: How to Fix a Struggling Marriage to a Bipolar Husband It’s so dreary to find out you’re married to someone with bouts of exhaustion and depression interspersed with manic behavior. It feels like bait and switch. How are you ever going to have a great partnership when there are just those two extremes and nothing in the middle, no normal husband behavior? It’s scary because not

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: Why Do Men Look at Other Women Part of why you decided to go all in and commit to your man is because he made you feel special. So when you see your husband checking out other women, it’s not only disappointing, it can be threatening. That’s not the agreement you had when he said you were the most wonderful, amazing woman in the world.  It

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: Are You Living in a Loveless Marriage? If you miss snuggling on the couch, dreaming about your future together, and spontaneous dance grooves in the hallway, it’s disappointing when that goes missing. Without love, there’s just work and chores and sleep. It’s lonely and sad when all the joy is sucked out of your marriage. But if you want to feel desired again, get pats on

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: 5 Lessons from 200 Empowered Wife Interviews This is the 200th episode of the Empowered Wife Podcast, so first of all, let’s have some confetti! Yay! It’s because of you listening to this podcast every week, many of you more than once, that it’s been so successful. So thank you for listening, for thinking marriage is important enough to learn about and work on, because it

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: Why is My Husband so Defensive It’s annoying when you’re trying to have a conversation and your man either clams up and gets cold or raises his voice or starts arguing with you. It seems mysterious why he’s so riled up. If only he’d relax so you could have a normal conversation! I used to be so confused about why my husband would look exasperated when

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: Lack of Intimacy in Marriage Lacking emotional and physical intimacy in my marriage was miserable. With no deep conversations, flirting, or laughing together, I felt rejected and neglected, NOT desired, which is something really important to me. What’s the point of even being married?! After the connection and playfulness we used to have, I knew what I was missing, which made it even worse! Thinking this

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: How to Handle the Silent Treatment with Dignity The silent treatment can make you feel really bad and desperate to end the tension. It’s scary and takes up a lot of energy wondering how long it’s going to last, if it’s still on, and if there’s something you should be doing differently to fix it. It feels horribly rejecting when someone you love won’t speak to