Controlling Husband Cure: How to Get Him to Stop Before You Smack Him
If he’s always telling you what to do, here’s what it means
Does your husband tell you how to cut an onion? How to drive? What to wear?
It’s no fun to have someone barking orders at you like you’re incompetent, or a kitchen elf who should do his bidding.
You’ve calmly asked him to just relax, or have gotten upset about it, and still…he can’t seem to keep himself from telling you what to do and how to do it.
It gets discouraging. Who wouldn’t be defensive?
If you knew how to get him to stop, you surely would, but nothing seems to work. He just doesn’t get the message. So you struggle along, feeling hurt and angry most of the time.
That was Allison’s situation, and she just couldn’t take it anymore.
She left her husband because he was so controlling—possessive too. She felt like a prisoner at times, and embarrassed when he told her how to cut the cake in front of everyone at a graduation party.
But when I showed her an approach she hadn’t considered, she decided she had nothing to lose by trying it.
That’s when everything changed. Now Allison is back with her husband and feeling like a newlywed again.
“I finally understand what people mean when they say, ‘I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you,’” she told me excitedly. “That’s exactly how I feel.”
Here’s what I shared with Allison that helped her get there:Read More›