3 Ways Vulnerability Can Actually Attract Your Man
By Stefanie Herron, Laura Doyle Certified Relationship Coach
When you’re raised to be strong and resilient and, most of all, equal, the idea of becoming vulnerable is low on your to-do list.
Why be weepy when it can make you look “touched”–like a nut job with a screw loose?
Crying seems like something to avoid in favor of being rational.
Who wants to be sensitive and soft when what’s rewarded in the world is being undemonstrative and competent?
That’s what I thought too. Everyone knows boys don’t cry, and that includes girls.
Plus, whenever I did turn on the waterworks, my man would locate the nearest exit. Then I really had something to cry about.
But then I learned something that reversed this trend for good.
These days my husband loves to see me cry–for all the right reasons.Read More›