Dear Laura, My husband NEVER compliments me or praises me for ANYTHING. I am not dramatizing it either. He never has. He’s never even said, “You’re beautiful,” or “You look good in that dress.” This isn’t something he just stopped doing–he’s never done it, even when we were dating. I feel so unloved and unattractive […]Read More ›
Dragging her husband to a psychologist didn’t help improve Dina Bucholz’s unhappy marriage, but here’s the inspiring story of what she did to restore the intimacy and get the fairy tale marriage she has now. Here are the steps she took, in her own words. The trouble started in the very first year of our […]Read More ›
One of the best things I ever did for my relationship is teach other women the principles that lead to intimacy. It’s one thing to know what to do, but it’s quite another to hear myself telling other women how to be respectful and how to relinquish inappropriate control for the good of their romantic […]Read More ›
I hate hearing about someone getting divorced. It always gives me a sinking feeling because I remember the pain and desperation I felt years ago when I was contemplating divorce. I remember how lonely and miserable that was, and—I now know—how unnecessary. My mission is to end world divorce by getting women the information that […]Read More ›
Dear Laura, I am the only breadwinner at my house. I desperately want to respect my husband, but I have a VERY hard time not resenting that I have to work to earn all the money and that I end up doing all the housework too. He watches the children, which is a lot, but […]Read More ›
A Muslim, a Jew and a Christian all went to a workshop…and found that the concepts supported what they learned from their faith. I know it sounds like a joke, but one of the deeply moving things about teaching the principles of intimacy is that they are universal to women of all faiths and no faiths. Today’s guest blog is from a Muslim woman who found surrendering to be an eye-opening experience.
I taught a four-week workshop on How to Have an Intimate, Passionate, Peaceful Relationship with your Man at a local mosque last year and I’ll be offering it again in September. For more information, go to www.wisewives.org.Read More ›
Dear Laura, I’ve been stepping down from controlling and my husband doesn’t like it! He says I’m acting weird and it’s creeping him out. It doesn’t seem right to go back to telling him what to do. I know it can be a big adjustment and take time for the guy to get used to […]Read More ›