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Dear Wives and Girlfriends
I’ve been a relationship expert and best-selling author for over 18 years, but I started out as an unhappy wife.
Everything in my marriage was a mess. My husband was distant and preferred watching TV to my company or even making love to me.
I was responsible for everything because he just couldn’t seem to do the simplest tasks, and I was afraid to get another late notice on the bills. We even got to the point where I was supporting us both because he had quit his job and wasn’t working. Nor would he do any housecleaning while I was working all day.
We had a lot of big fights, with silent cold wars in between. I was seriously considering divorce.
We went to couples counseling, but things just got worse.
There was no such thing as relationship coaching at the time.
Finally, I started asking women who had been married 15 years or more for their advice–and that’s when I was in for a real shock.
What they told me was so contrary to what I’d seen my mom do growing up that it just didn’t make sense to me. Still, I was willing to try anything to avoid the pain and embarrassment of getting divorced, so I decided to give their suggestions a go.
When some of those seemingly crazy suggestions worked, I kept doing them. Of course, not all of them did, but after a while I saw a pattern.
I ended up with just six skills that really had an impact on the happiness and connection level at my house. I kept doing those six things, which I called the Intimacy Skills, as best I could.
Honestly, I wasn’t very good at them yet because I was still learning and finding my way. It took me a couple of years to figure it all out. But I could see that when I stuck to the Six Skills, things improved immediately.
When I didn’t, well, things didn’t go so well at our house.
I started enlisting my girlfriends to try out the Six Intimacy Skills–my first foray into relationship coaching.
We met in my living room to talk strategy and have lunch. Our mission was to restore our marriages to their original glory.
I wasn’t sure if the Six Skills I’d learned would work for them too, but it didn’t take long to find out.
The other women showed up with romantic stories and signs of success for their relationship and even their finances. One husband got a raise, another one won a sales contest and took his wife on a trip, and another painted the family room that they’d been bickering about for months.
That was just the outward evidence that something in those relationships had shifted for the better.
A few months later I was noticing my husband was being so thoughtful, and that he looked so handsome. I noticed he was taking more initiative–from announcing we were going out to dinner to deciding it was time to stain the deck too initiating sex.
He started his own successful business and took over handling the household bills so I didn’t have to worry about them. He was also doing the dishes without me having to ask him six times––or at all.
He wasn’t watching as much TV or looking as depressed and dejected.
My friends were commenting that my husband looked different. “What’s changed?” they asked me. I knew that the Six Intimacy Skills were doing their magic because we were laughing together again, and holding hands, and enjoying physical intimacy than we had in years.
All of the women who met in my living room noticed their husbands were becoming more romantic and thoughtful.
We felt more desired and attractive–more dignified too.
Our husbands were more attentive to the kids and were helping out around the house more. They seemed happier and we were too.
We couldn’t believe the transformation! It was like we had figured out a way to turn the clock back to the beginning of the relationship when it was so exciting and we felt so adored.
Word spread, and dozens of women came to me for help. I showed them the Six Intimacy Skills and gave them relationship coaching, and the results were always the same: When a wife learned and practiced those skills, her relationship improved dramatically in about two weeks.
One of the things women would say a lot was, “I feel like I have a new husband!” But of course, he wasn’t the one who changed–-she did. And then he responded to her differently.
It took me a lot of years, a lot of hard work, and a lot of trial and error to figure all of this stuff out.
Now, I’m sharing all of my knowledge and know-how with other women–women who are married, or who want to be married, or who want to learn these skills well before they get married (that’s what I wish I had done!). And…
I’m very happy to say that women are doing very well with everything they’re learning through relationship coaching!
I’ve poured my heart and soul into creating a private coaching program that shows you how to have an intimate peaceful, passionate romance you deserve, even if your marriage has been broken for a long time.
So far it’s worked for thousands of women, in 30 countries and 19 languages.
There’s something magical about doing this work with support, and it took me a while to realize what a difference it makes. When you hear one of my coaches describe a problem you’re having and didn’t even think to bring up, the solution just clicks faster and deeper. Or you might be secretly relieved to hear your coach admit that she threw a bag of cereal at her husband–proof positive that we’ve all done things in our relationships that we’re not proud of. Just knowing there were other women like me was so comforting and fortifying–I thought of them whenever I was furious with my husband, and thought about how they were expecting me to do my best to cultivate an intimate, passionate, peaceful marriage. It helped me be more successful than I would have been by myself.This step-by-step relationship coaching package will eliminate the frustrations and struggles in your marriage by showing you how to inspire your man to want to make you happy and treat you tenderly. It will also help free you up from having so much responsibility and eliminate a lot of bickering and blowouts. Your physical intimacy will improve, of course, and so will your prosperity as a family. You might think that’s an outlandish claim, but I’ve seen it too many times to doubt it.
Whether you think your man is too clingy, too distant, too angry or too wimpy, you’ll discover how to cultivate a relationship that will lead you to say “I can’t believe how wonderful my husband is.”
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I know how gratifying it is to finally have a happy, easy, loving relationship after spending several miserable years thinking I was going to have to get divorced. Sometimes I’m so happy to be in such a sweet, supportive, playful marriage it moves me to tears. I don’t want you to rob yourself of this kind of relationship one second longer. Please apply for your complimentary discovery call today and watch the transformation take place!
I wish you the best in your romantic relationship. If you work with one of my coaches following your complimentary discovery call, I’d really like to hear how it’s working for you. Women who learn these six intimacy skills and use them to create intimacy, passion and peace in their homes are a powerful force for change on Earth. If every woman in the world had these skills, we could end divorce. It would really make a difference.
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I would like to do your courses
Olla, I acknowledge you for your courage and commitment! Here’s where you can join the waitlist for The Ridiculously Happy Wife program: https://lauradoyle.org/rhw-waitlist/
Hi, that waitlist link does not work – can you post again?
i’d like to subscribe to your podcast. how do i do that?
Lilianne, If you have an iphone, you can do it on Apple Podcasts app (formerly itunes podcasts). If you have an android phone you can do it on Google Play app. Thanks for subscribing!
I’m interested in taking the course. Pls contact me. Ty
I’m Gabi, the one with the beautiful smile 😀 (yesterday zoom meeting).
I would love to have a virtual coffee with you to tell you my story!! I’m pretty sure you would love it and actually I’m really excited and willing to become part of your “army” against divorce.
P.S. It was awesome yesterday, I felt like if we were having the meeting in your livingroom, as if we were close friends.
Thanks for everything!
Hi Gabi with the beautiful smile! That really was so fun yesterday. Thanks for joining the mission to end world divorce! I love that, and I would LOVE to hear your story over virtual coffee! How about telling me in an interview for the podcast? You can change your name if you want. I’d love to hear all about it and do my happy dance with you. If you’re willing, here’s where you go to do that: https://lauradoyle.org/podcast-guest/
Hi, Are the zoom calls that Gabi is mentioning above open to anyone, or only to those who are currently on a training? If we can all come, please could you mention how? Thank you!
Z, Gabi is referring to the Zoom calls that all students who are enrolled in programs get to participate in. If that’s something you’re interested in, you can become a member of the Ridiculously Happy Wife group coaching program and join us.
This book truly saved my marriage.
Thank you Laura. You are a true genius and a blessing in this world!
I would love to become a coach and help others.
Please be in touch.
Malkie, congratulations on saving your marriage! Thank you for your kind words. I love your vision of becoming a coach and sharing your inspiring transformation with others! I invite you to my free Masterclass at lauradoyle.org/become-a-coach. Hope to see you in Relationship Coach Training! I can’t wait to meet you.
I wish I could afford your program. I believe it would transform my marriage, bring us back together and have my husband live me again.
Robin, I love your vision of transforming your marriage and reconciling with your husband, and would love to see you get support with that! Our most economical coaching program is The Ridiculously Happy Wife. You can join the waitlist and get all the details here: https://lauradoyle.org/rhw-waitlist/