Marriage Advice, Relationship Advice, Tips, and Help Articles
I remember what lack of intimacy was like in my marriage—terrible. It made me feel like what’s the point of even being married?! Every interaction was a painful reminder that we were NOT having deep conversations, flirting, or laughing together. There was no emotional intimacy and then no physical intimacy either. I felt rejected and… Read More »
When there’s no passion in your marriage, first of all that’s a huge disappointment because that’s a big part of the allure of marriage. You vowed to love in sickness and in health partly because you felt so irresistible when he made bedroom eyes or swept you up in his arms and told you how… Read More »
When you discover that your husband watches porn, it can feel really bad, disrespectful even. Here you’re his only partner in the bedroom, but he’s watching other women do nasty things on his phone. It’s so disappointing, and so revolting. It can also make you feel pretty unspecial knowing that your husband watches an endless… Read More »
When you fell in love with your husband, it was partly because he made you feel beautiful, sexy and special. So it can be crushing to find out that he’s still looking at other women online even though he’s with you. It can make you feel undesirable, disappointed and less than. Even worse, it might… Read More »
If you’re anything like me you love feeling desired, and when the physical passion in your relationship is missing or rare, it makes you feel undesirable, which feels awful. Then you wonder if it’s because of the extra pounds or wrinkles turning him off. Or maybe because there’s something wrong with him that he’s not… Read More »
If the sex in your relationship isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, you’re not alone. Women tell me there hasn’t been any physical intimacy since the baby was born–and he’s four. Or that her husband is always after her for sex, but she just feels used. Or that she’s tired of feeling so rushed… Read More »
If you’re anything like me and most of the women I talk to, you want to feel that your husband desires you–that he finds you magnetic and irresistible. If, like me, you’ve found yourself feeling entirely resistible to your man, you know how painful that is. You might think that means it’s time to get… Read More »
When I was at the lowest point in my marriage–feeling completely dejected and lonely because my husband was not affectionate–I kept reading advice from experts who insisted that the solution was to say, “I have a serious concern about your lack of affection.” The underlying premise of this advice is that my husband just did… Read More »
When I married my husband, I thought he was the most handsome, smart, funny, talented guy I’d ever met. I couldn’t wait to spend the rest of my life with him. But a few short years into our marriage, I couldn’t remember anything I liked about him. He seemed pathetic, immature, lacking ambition and sloppy.… Read More »
If you’ve ever spent an evening with your man or a date and ended up being his life coach, you already know that doesn’t make you irresistible. Quite the opposite, actually. All that good advice you gave him did not lead to more dates, or make him pull you in with both arms and shower… Read More »
