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LISTEN TO THE SHOW: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Love You? When your husband actually says the words, “I don’t love you,” the hurt comes in waves. First, there’s shock and bewilderment. Your mind races with questions. How did this happen? How long has he felt this way? Then there’s terror. What does this mean for our future? For our marriage? For our kids? Then there’s deep, deep … Read more…

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: How to Get Your Husband to Pay Attention to You Sometimes it feels like everything else is more important to your husband than you are: work, the kids, whoever is texting him. Even the dog gets more of his time than you do! You’re craving his attention so much it hurts, and yet the whole day passes–and the next and the next–and he has barely acknowledged … Read more…

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: If you’re anything like I was, when you fight with your partner you both say nasty things. It can be shocking to see how low this thing you live with will go. And while I’ve said some regrettable things during a fight, the biggest thing on my mind when it’s over is that he owes me an apology. Big time! And it’d better be a good … Read more…

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: My husband hurts my feelings sometimes, even now that our marriage has been mostly playful and passionate for many years. It’s not very often anymore, I admit, but as human beings living in close proximity that’s happens occasionally. When he does, my knee-jerk reaction is to strike back; To show him why he’s wrong and offer 10 airtight defenses along with a subtle–but sharp–insult. But now … Read more…

LISTEN TO THE SHOW: One of the most common problems I hear from wives is, “My husband is not attracted to me anymore.” It’s always heartbreaking because I remember how lousy that felt. Like me, these women usually think the problem is either that she married the wrong guy or that her weight, her age, or her post-baby body has made her less beautiful. And it’s painful to think you … Read more…