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What Men Find Irresistible

What Men Find Irresistible

What Men Find Irresistible

11 Hacks that Make Men Go Gaga with Passion and Desire

If you’ve ever spent an evening with your man or a date and ended up being his life coach, you already know that doesn’t make you irresistible.

Quite the opposite, actually.

All that good advice you gave him did not lead to more dates, or make him pull you in with both arms and shower you with kisses, or look deep into your eyes and say that he loved you more than anyone has ever loved anyone.

But there are 11 simple behaviors that men find irresistible in women, and not one of them has to do with hair, makeup or how you dress.

None of them are manipulations. They won’t make you seem desperate. You won’t have to dumb down.

In fact, they’ll help you be your best self—your real self.

Here’s how you can become supermodel-style irresistible to a man whether he’s your long-time husband or you’ve just met: Click To Tweet
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How to Attract Your Husband in Bed

How to Attract Your Husband in Bed

5 Lies About Married Sex that Everyone Thinks Are True

If the sizzle is missing from your bedroom, you may think (like I did) that it’s because of circumstances beyond your control.

The good news is that the real reason the passion is running low is probably something well within your power to change, which means it’s within your power to enjoy feeling sexy and desirable again.

The key is recognizing what stands between you and the satisfying physical connection we all want.

If sex is rare or non-existent in your relationship, you may have chalked it up to one of these common myths. The sooner you uncover the real reason your love life is disappointing, the sooner you can skyrocket the passion again.

Here are the common misconceptions women have about why they’ve been in a long dry spell, along with the underlying cause so you can make the adjustments to attract your husband in bed.

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My Husband Is Not Attracted to Me

Husband not Attracted to Me

My Husband Is Not Attracted to Me

Why It’s Not What You Think and How to Solve the Real Problem

One of the most common problems I hear from wives is, “My husband is not attracted to me anymore.”

It’s always heartbreaking because I remember how lousy that felt.

Like me, these women usually think the problem is either that she married the wrong guy or that her weight, her age, or her post-baby body has made her less beautiful.

And it’s painful to think you don’t look good enough to get a pat on the butt or bedroom eyes anymore.

But how she looks is simply not the issue. Nor is it that she married the wrong guy.

Those weren’t the problems in my marriage when my husband was acting repulsed instead of attracted to me.

Something else entirely was going on, and it was a huge relief to finally discover it and get those butt pats and bedroom eyes back.

The problem was actually pretty simple to fix and had so many other benefits for me.

Here’s what I did that got my husband to be ridiculously attracted to me again… Click To Tweet
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Anger Management for Women

Anger Management for Women

Confessions of a Former Rageaholic Who Found a Lasting Cure

It may not have been my first rageaholic episode, but I have a cringe-worthy memory of verbally ripping my sister up one side and down the other in anger when I was in college.

Her crime? She locked my keys in the car.

I could not contain the barrage of ugly words that came pouring out of me.

I said choice things like, “How could you be so stupid? What were you thinking? Obviously you weren’t! What an IDIOT you are!”

I went on and on in a shrill voice–all in front of my roommate.

I could not stop myself from berating her. It gave me a release that seemed impossible to deny.

It’s hard to convey the utter horror of the bully that I was.

Raging was a regular occurrence for me for over a decade. Managing that anger was impossible as far as I could tell.

I picked on unlucky store clerks, bank tellers and customer service reps.

But most of all, I raged at my husband, whose response was to suffer through my episodes by saying very little and escaping as soon as he could.

I always felt tremendous shame and remorse afterward. But that didn’t help me when the urge arose the next time. And the next, and the next–hundreds of times.

But I no longer feel that urge. I haven’t had a Godzilla episode in over 17 years. I don’t miss them. At all.

The cure for my anger was a byproduct of my journey to fix another problem: My broken marriage.

I’m not the only one—my clients and coaches also report that their anger subsided and they regained their dignity when they adopted these simple practices:

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The Laws of Attraction in Relationships

The Laws of Attraction in Relationships

How to Create the Kind of Relationship You Want

What you focus on increases.

That’s the law of attraction at its core, and it’s my experience in my relationship too, and what I witness with my clients.

When I repeatedly suggested my husband ask for a raise at work, what I was really saying was, “You don’t make enough money.”

Eventually, he stopped making money altogether.

That’s how good I am at manifesting what I focus on.

You could say that was his decision and I just happened to be married to him, but when I changed it up to start focusing and talking about how he was a good provider, he started a very successful business.

That was over a dozen years ago, and his business is still going strong.

I’ve been calling him Mr. Moneybags the entire time.

That doesn’t seem like a stretch at all now, but it sure did at first.

It didn’t take long for him to live up to my Spouse Fulfilling Prophecy (SFP).

I created my SFP because I decided to focus on what I wanted instead of what I didn’t want.

I’m just one example. I see women create the kind of relationship they dream about all the time by focusing on what they want instead of what they don’t want.

But what about the other person’s decisions, you might wonder. Don’t they get a say about what’s going to happen too?

Of course they do. But you have more influence than you think. In fact, you hold the key to how your husband or boyfriend will respond to you.

Here are the steps to using the Law of Attraction to create what you want to experience in your love life: Click To Tweet
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#1 Way to Make Your Marriage Happier

#1 Way to Make Your Marriage Happier

This is What Oprah Meant When She Said Remember Your Spirit

Shana was upset with her husband when she got home to find the kids eating candy and playing on the iPad while he worked in the yard.

“I just can never count on him when I want to go out. He says he’s taking care of the kids and then I come home to this!” she seethed.

Meanwhile, Jessica was just as upset with her husband, who moved the computer and a huge pile of cords into their bedroom, making it look messy. “Why can’t he understand that I like things to be tidy and organized?” she complained.

Karen was equally irritated about her husband coming home from work an hour later than he said he would. “He always does this!” she told me, “I’m just going to tell him how inconsiderate he is.”

Of course, it’s easy to see ways that each of those husbands had been irritating or irresponsible, but it turns out, that wasn’t the real problem.

In each of these cases, there was something else contributing to the tension in the relationship, and it had everything to do with Shana, Jessica, and Karen.

It just wasn’t obvious to them at first–not until I asked each of them this revealing question…

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Myths About Marriage

Myths About Marriage

Myths About Marriage

The Top 5 Insane (and False!) Lies About Relationships

When my marriage was miserable, I was always looking for clues about how to fix it.

I desperately wanted to find some key information that I could use to stop my husband from being the biggest loser-pants on the planet.

And in a way, that’s what happened. Sorta.

I finally found the right information, and it did help my husband respond to me in a much better way. Like a completely different guy–the awesome guy I married.

Turns out I was mistaken about that “biggest loser-pants” part, and when I realized that, he couldn’t do enough to make me happy.

But along the way, I learned these thoroughly unhelpful marriage myths.

When I didn’t know what I didn’t know, I thought these myths were the holy grail. But mostly, I ended up chasing my tail around for a while–and further insulting my husband, and sometimes his parents–all in the name of working on our relationship.

It all made me depressed because nothing was working.

So to this day, it still makes me want to punch someone in the nose to see one of the myths that kept me stuck and made me feel completely hopeless.

These myths are the worst, because they seem kind of reasonable and true-ish.

But they’re not. They’re absurd, and should be run over with the car.

Here are the five most silly, stupid, ridicule-worthy myths about relationships–and what I now know is the key to having your husband want to give you his attention and affection, and trip over himself to make you smile.

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